Inquiry for those with authentic self confidence

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

ChristopherColumbus

Master Don Juan

Sep 28, 2016

As you believe so you are.

The problem is that the more realist minded will ask whether that is delusional.

So you had first a natural state of being, which once synthesized all your instincts into a coherent whole. Yet the suspicious analytical part came to interrogate the rest. This led to a shallow philosophy and despair.

I think the task is to regain the natural equilibrium, which is one of confidence and faith. Your Will is the master, reason the mere hand-maiden.

I feel a poem coming on.

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.