Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Innuendo

Brazilian_Blues_Boy

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How insinuating are you?

A Seducer is a sexy man, a man who's surrounded by a air of mistery and sexuality...

How do you achieve that?

By improving your way of communicating, of carring yourself around...

First of all, see all the contact as joke, and have fun flirting.
Flirt everyone, just for fun ;)

Don't look like a insecure anxious fellow... look like a smooth man who wants to have fun, and put a smile on the ladies' faces...

Be naughty... learn naughty eye contact... check her out and then smile in a naughty way... make sure she sees you looking at her best parts... and laugh... and please, don't feel guilty, because you're just an admiror of a cute work of nature's art :cool:

Stop the conversation and look deep into her eyes... imagine her naked, and then look again... the desire will build up inside you, and she'll feel it burning around you...

Stay close to her, very close... talk slowly, calmly, in a low voice, and whisper at her ear sometimes... rest your chin in her neck if you're facing her back...

Touch her hand and rub it sometimes... make it feel like it is a joke... tell her your fingers are lonely ;)
If she gives you a hard time for that, it's probably because she's cold and you shouldn't bother with her anymore...

Put your hands in the back of her neck sometimes, and run your fingers through her hair... she'll get excited, but will never admit that for you big boy :D

Try to be as close as she allows you to... the more receptive she is to your closeness, the more you're in...

Put your hand over her knees, and her legs sometimes, when you're beginning to say something... and forget it there for a while... not too much, just a while, so that she gets used to the feeling of your hands in her leg... and remember... the closer to the *****, the better... be bold... specially if there's no one around you... you can only find out how much you can get away with by trial and error :)

Put your arms around her... on her shoulder... these are things that lovers do... you know, if you act like a lover, talk like a lover, there's a big chance that she'll feel that you're like a lover to her...

Every once in a while, make them jealous... leave them to talk to other girls... make sure she sees you talking to other girls...
kinoing other girls, having a wild time with other girls...

Be very calm in your speaking, sound like David Coverdale in Whitesnake's "Is this love"...
Be direct and sincere... tell her that she's looking awesome today... that her outfit is making you horny...
And then change the subject, don't try any other further advance...
She'll be amazed with your self control... and she'll beg for you to advance more, to talk more...

Women, even the hottest, are very insecure about their looks...
Make them sure that they're cute but that that alone doesn't affect you much...

Smile a lot, laugh a lot... make her laugh with you... some girls are very shy and reserved, and when you start to make you laugh, you awake their "wild side", and they become completely new girls...

The key to all is feeling your sexuality, accepting it, and make it slowly come in contact with hers, in a sort of joyful dance...

Lots of women are very reserved, because they have never found a man who inspires them to laugh, and accept their own sexuality and being sexual around him, because that is the most natural thing to do when you're around a man like that...

Be innocent sometimes... be like a small, needy, insecure child...
appeal to the Mother instinct that all women have... this works specially great with sweet chicks, cause she'll be very sweet with you and connect to you in a very delicate way, and when you're there, you can start heating things up a little...

Sometimes it's better to act like an innocent lonely boy to get through her b!tch shields, and once you're inside the enemy's headquarters, you can begin to unleash your powers...

You want to be sexy, sensual, naughty, insinuating...
But not dirty !!

Do not sound like a horny bastard that only wants to get laid...
Sound like a little devil who's whispering sweet words of desire in her ear, slowly teasing her till the time she can't hold it anymore...

Do not need her, nor make her need you too much... Interact...
Love, Lust and other sex-related feelings are mutual, are results of interactions... don't try to make it too individual on any of the sides...

Masturbate her mind... love scenarios, romantic landscapes are as exciting as porn for us...

Break the conversation and whisper in her ear: " Imagine how great it would be if we could just lay down on the grass, beside each other, and watch the sunset and then count the stars in the sky... imagine, how great, we, holding each other's hands and feeling the cool breeze, and we can playfully find out how ticklish we are, and roll for some minutes in the grass... then stop, sit, and laugh a lot at our silly faces... "

This sh!t seems very stupid but girls get horny inside, believe me on this one boy !!
The better you describe the pictures, the sounds and the feelings for her, more horny she'll get...

She may deny that, she will deny, but she'll go home thinking about it, and probably have some wet dreams...
How many men tell them things like that??

Few to none... use this to your advantage...

If things go bad, stop, regroup, and laugh your a$$ off !!
Even the moments of awkard silence can guarantee some good laughing... don't take things personally...

If things go well, congratulate yourself and keep on, bolder, smoother...

Even if there's no concrete outcome... you changed her life... you made her feel in a way that she never did before... you're a real seducer...and she'll alaways remember you...

And there's no greater pleasure to a Don than making a girl happy and infatuated... even if it doesn't go beyond that...

Lust is our best friend in our path to DJ... instead of fighting it, or letting it take over... go 50%/50% with it... and have fun... enjoy...
everything, the whole courting game .... in a beautiful way...

Thanks a lot to stockholder (author of The Natural) and to my dearest friend Bó, who's in Japan now...

And my sincere congratulations to the old guys who are still shaking this forum up... I love you guys...

Go out there now everyone,
and seduce

BBB
 

fragmentor

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Oooooh a long post from BBB making references to sex and possibly some NLP will get thrown in there...

...this is gonna be good :D
 

fastrunner

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very nice

a good reminder of a lot of the principles of being a don juan.
 

Canadianpimpology

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Aweomse stuff BBB. I've got to try that part where you make her horny by imagining scenarious. I'm gonna do that ASAP!
 

Da Game

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That's good stuff... I saved it to my computer to read later. Keep the awesome posts coming. :)
 
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Sometimes it's better to act like an innocent lonely boy to get through her b!tch shields, and once you're inside the enemy's headquarters, you can begin to unleash your powers...

Thats such a funny way to put it, and a perfect too!

VERY nice post!
 

The Antichrist_Star

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I'm starting to think that me and Brazilian Blues Boy are brothers from a different mother (and in this case... even a different country ;)) Good stuff. I also B3 am a huge flirt and a very big fan of sexual innuendos... in fact, I make them almost all of the time, and the women eat them up.

Great stuff.

The Matrix: Reloaded
 

Brazilian_Blues_Boy

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For a long time, I wanted to know why things weren't working...
Why wasn't I the ladies man I wanted to be... with all the ladies I wanted, not just some...

Then I read Stockholder's "The Natural" and it hit me !!
I wasn't really attracting them , and when I attracted them , I wasn't seducing them...

So I read that post over and over, and start to think a lot... until things clicked... I was too insinuating with some ladies, and not a little with others... I was only sexy with the ladies I wanted to, and not with all of them...

So I started, and I'm still improving my levels of sensuality... one
week ago, there were 5 or 6 girls who just knew who I am...
Now they like me way more... I'm a cool guy in their perception...

Playful, that's the way to be... if you can't honestly have fun with the ladies... this post is not for you...

And Matrix, Dad did travel a lot ;)

BBB
 

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BBB

This is hot... the best advice I heard read so far...

Masturbate her mind...
I'm gonna have this little phrase engrained in my brain for the rest of the week... lol
 

Luscious

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This sounds so outrageous, so unnatural, so ridiculously EMBARRASSING to do that it can't possibly work.

:D But it certainly DOES work.

Go outside your comfort zone and try this stuff, BE the freakin' man.


And of course, we gotta give this quality post a QUALITY bump.

So bump, dammit.
 

Mikelo2k

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Great advice BBB, havent been to the forum for a while and your post being the second one I read, makes me remember how great this forum really is :D
 

oreo_renegade

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So, that was YOU spying on me from behind the bushes!?

Yeah, thought I didnt see you eh? Well the secret is out! Think your so smart, spy on tha cookie man, and then come and make a post about it!?

Excellent post man, all exactly true:)


I really think that its the vibe you give off that seperates the AFC from the DJ. You give off a sexy vibe, and damn! You are one sexy biotch.

I was phucking witha chicks mind in the library once, she was helping me pick outa book, and shed find somebok, and I'd get ovr tehre an be close as **** to her, and speak sexy, breathe on her neck, kino sexy, and shed be all blushed, then the next second Id ignore her completely and just look at books it was funy as hell.

She wanted me to take her right there, you shoulda seen her body language :D
 

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Back to the top with this one!

A little success story...

Was out with a female friend...still not sure if I wanna go any further with her...anyways, was in the friends zone.

Played with her hair, for no reason. She asked me what I was doing. I said "Youre hair is so soft, I couldn't resist". (NO JOKE). It sounds corny, but it was THE TRUTH, and she LOVED IT. I just kept doin silly little stuff, like playin with her hair, the rest of the night. From then on in, it was all green lights. Out of the friends zone, because of kino - this post is GOLDEN.

Read it again, guys. BBB has got it down pat.
 

oreo_renegade

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hah School starting soon

this is an excellent reminder for daily interactions.

School can be one hella fun and sexy place. :)
 
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