"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Innocent guy almost got 99-yrs because of ex-gf

Von

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It's crazy... how falling on the wrong person can ruin your life.

It's nuts... how the judicial system is now used for ''personnal revenge'' (like false rape accusations)

It's sad.... how the victim is ''guilty before proven innoncent'' when the information becomes public.

I am not saying that he was a ''good guy'' but certainly didn't deserve the ''crazy-angryness'' that follows. It kills all chances that the guy had to become a ''good person''.... (we all did mistakes but we redeemed ourselves with another person etc. )
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MillionBillionaire

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I wish I could explain the way my x wife charged me with some shyt SHE KNEW I DIDN'T DO. In fact, it was my X wifes, mom's, FRIEND who had to call the police on my behalf to say she was full of shyt.

**** women and their fuccing games.

I didn't even have the energy or money after everything to sue her ugly soul.
 

HankHill

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Anyway, the lesson you can learn from this is when you are accused of things like this is to GO GET A GOOD LAWYER, right away. Yep, it's expensive, but it's a whole lot cheaper than if you let this BS drag out. NEVER.... NEVER allow a court appointed lawyer represent you in an arraignment EVER.
That's good advice on getting a good lawyer but in this case it was her setup (cuts on the body, fake forced entry evidence etc) against his word, really hard to disprove even with a good lawyer since in these cases and in this day and age it's usually the man is considered guilty until proven innocent. So without the facebook pic which his mom remembered it would've been quite impossible to prove his innocence otherwise, no?
 

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Exit society.
 

.Paradox.

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Oh my GOD. This is absolutely beyond horrible. This POS kunt should be publicly executed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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