Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Inner Voice - animated Movie

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Check out this short animated movie by Adam Sandler, its hysterical : go to the website, then click on the bottom left corner of the animated series screen on the left hand side where its written MORE VIDEOS . Then scroll again on the left hand side to the "inner Voice" movie.

http://www.adamsandler.com/index.php?section=features

Not only is this movie funny but it also shows you how to act cool and confident, no matter where and how the conversation with a HB is going. She doesn't need to see how emotional you get ( keep everything you feel on the inside ala inner voice) On the outside be indiffernt and use humor to diffuse tense situation. Nothing can Phase you! remember that! NOTHING!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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