"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Inner Peace Lesson - Find your Purpose or Calling

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Travel memoir21

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I believe every Man and Woman was created by our creator to do a Specific task in this world.


You will know what that task is by tapping into our Creator or God Consciousness activities every day. Things like meditating and centering him in your mind, prayer and reading the scriptures, chanting his holy name and doing pious activities , restraining from toxic self gratification and doing noble activities to your fellow man daily will you know your true purpose. When you make the creator the number one source to your inner peace.


With this bliss and inspiration, you will find your true calling and it will inspire you to go out and make a difference in your community, society and beyond. With this bliss you will radiate an aura of godly inspiration and light, you will be the true definition of Love and unselfish Glory. So go out there and find your Purpose brother.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What you write is very spiritual. I could tell you that since I got passionate about art, music, poetry and started creating my own, I became multidimensional, but that from the outside is seen as you who are an incredible artist, but inside you also have to deal with having more emotions. And if I look back in time it has converted the cold man I was before into a more emotional and profound man.

While this can be a good thing for my SMV, it's a bad thing from the point of view of controlling emotions, or having that resilience, being that wall, that safe rock/mountain. I would really like to go back to being like this, in this way, not being shaken by anything. Being the mountain.

I think being cold/strong but still positive/optimistic it's way better than being emotional/reactive, for a man.

I also think this is related to the everyday activities I do. Since from when I've introduced those things I became that kind of man, there must be "counter" activities that make a man become more cold/strong in any situation.

Those are the man that have the best life! That could really do anything in life.

Being emotional/nostalgic it's the 21st century trap
 
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I've been keeping this in mind for the past couple of months. It's definitely more liberating imho.
 
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