"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Inner > Outer?

Macaframalama

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If you are a VERY fake individual, then at least half of this is inner. If you are real and authentic, then it’s pretty much all inner

This is inner

This is also inner...

I see what you are saying. But say you get with a woman. Sh!t tests are subtle and indirect. They are meant to determine your inner game and see what you are really made of. Someone with strong inner game aka strong self belief is very hard to sway. That’s also why that to them, circumstances are just that—circhmstances. They don’t change just because their circumstances do. That’s a sign of weakness and actually has little to do with inner vs outer, at least imo. I noticed this because I myself HATE weakness. Had to squash out every last bit of it in me, and then some. And I’m still not sure I’m fully there yet. I understand your perspective though.
I have always thought about weakness over the years myself. You will find sides that believe that this or that is the key to achieving something in life. I've always believed that most everything is inseparable and holistically connected. Mind, body and soul. Sure, there are individuals that sway to extreme ends of the spectrum and stay there most of the time and are still successful, but if you look at the upper echelon of the extremely successful, they all follow this mantra. They speak it into existence, as much as they strive to achieve it in the physical. Muhammed Ali, Tyson, Bruce Lee, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Henry Ford, Napoleon Hill, etc. They meditated heavily on their goals. This way of thinking is applicable to any goal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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