"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Inner issue + advice needed

GaryUranga

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About the inner issue, I get this a lot; when a girl that is initially attracted to me acts uninterested later on I start obsessing about it, happens with almost every girl Im kind of interested in. how do I fix this?

And related to that inner issue, theres this girl IMO a HB8.5 sending me massive signals, I think she has a bf though, anyways shes always showing a lot of interest, I spent quite a while to talk to her mainly cause I didnt care, we have some friends in common so shes always wondering around where I am, yesterday I decided to talk to her cause my interest on her went up :p did some C+F, she laughed, it went good, later that day me and my friend were leaving and she blalantly stared at me, anyways, today I saw her again and now shes ignoring me, not like I know her well yet or anything but I always start obsessing about this kind of stuff, theres not really any other girls I actually like which sucks because it could backfire on me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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