"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Inner issue + advice needed

GaryUranga

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About the inner issue, I get this a lot; when a girl that is initially attracted to me acts uninterested later on I start obsessing about it, happens with almost every girl Im kind of interested in. how do I fix this?

And related to that inner issue, theres this girl IMO a HB8.5 sending me massive signals, I think she has a bf though, anyways shes always showing a lot of interest, I spent quite a while to talk to her mainly cause I didnt care, we have some friends in common so shes always wondering around where I am, yesterday I decided to talk to her cause my interest on her went up :p did some C+F, she laughed, it went good, later that day me and my friend were leaving and she blalantly stared at me, anyways, today I saw her again and now shes ignoring me, not like I know her well yet or anything but I always start obsessing about this kind of stuff, theres not really any other girls I actually like which sucks because it could backfire on me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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