“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There's just something about working outside with your own two hands that makes you feel like a MAN again
This is what is meant by Tai Sabaki, or body knowledge, the Movement of the Body RESETS neurology.

This is how you rewire yourself

Imagine what you could do if you trained martial art outside in the sunshine
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Interceptor, don't get me wrong, I absolutely LOVE your posts but sometimes they just aren't enough. They provide information and great information, but sometimes we need to be more forcefully guided into what to do. I know you can't tell someone DO THIS but simply guiding them on a path helps because any action is better than none.

in my opinion inner game definately isn't just about women. Part of it is changing your beliefs reguarding them, and it will definately help attract them, but that's just a small part. Having a solid inner game will help you in all parts of your life. What's the point of being good with women if you always feel put down by guys and haven't achieved success in other parts of your life?

Anyone have any other ways to change beliefs other than affirmations? Hypnotica has a cool NLP technique where you look at one of your limiting beliefs and then imagine yourself in the future: 1 month, 6 motnhs, a year, 2 years, 10 years and 20 years. How has it changed you life? Then you change that belief into a positive belief that helps not hinders and do the same and see the difference. It's is eye opening. Hypnosis, then action to get psoitive refferance points might be a good track. I haven't ever tried tapping, anyone had good results with that?

Tyler Durden mentions something called the 'indifference threshold'. He says that you can't easily change your belief that girls all love you and everyone is friendly without actually going out, and even if you do your previous beliefs will probably cause some negative results anyway. So what he says is to go out enough so that your brain thinks 'hey, I got rejected by all those people, but hey look, I'm still here, alive, surving and with no negative effects'. Once that point is reached it should drastically improve your game and from there stronger beliefs can be formed as you will get a lot more positive results. ...Seems resonable to me
 

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reset said:
well they do have men at their fingertips and before I thought that meant they must have good self-esteem, but that's not really the case.

Really attractive women may be so used to being praised on looks alone that they are insecure, wondering if anyone really takes them seriously.
Women living in rural areas and single mothers for example and less attractive women would not have to many men at their fingertips. Maybe they would have men but men they don't feel attracted to or men that are only after sex etc. Either way the women are single and unhappy.

I'd imagine really attractive women would eventually get bored of men putting them on a pedestal. Thats why they go for the bad boys in alot of cases.
 

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SinJester said:
Anyone have any other ways to change beliefs other than affirmations?
When using affirmations you're supposed to affirm, visualise and feel what you're affirming. It gets easier with practise.

When I'm out in public now I say to myself "everybody loves me"! If you already think that then great, if not try it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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