"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Inner Game - Mental/Emotional Fortitude

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Don Juan
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Hello Don Juans,

I learned so much from joining this forum about six years ago. Even though I read and tried my best to apply the principles taught in the DJBible, I could not break free. Eventually, I realized how poor my emotional and mental health was. This lead me to realize that this is at the core of inner game. If you do not have proper mental and emotional health, you will never become a high value man.

I made this video (5min) on overcoming depression and promoting mental/emotional health. Whether you have high-functioning depression, depression, a bad week, or a rough time in your life, this will provide you with invaluable insight. I want to give back by sharing what I have learned this past year.

Please get this video to those who need it the most.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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