Well honestly a girl who i've been friends with for along time i hag out with quiet a bit, i see her as a great friend and honestly at this time is all i feel for her. Anyway she comes out with me bowling with some friends.... i invited one of her friends too who is recently broken up from a LTR. We go out bowling had a wicked time, all of us go back to my friends house, we plan true or dare janga, ended up swapping clothes with bff girl. We end up watching a movie, one of my douche bag friends starts making out with the recent LTR broke up *****... and my bff girl ends up snuggling with one of my friends. I am not pissed off seriously they could have sex and i would not care(i dont think she'd hook up with him anyways but still).... it just the fact that say we are watching a movie together she will turn away from me but yet she see my friend as someone to cuddle with. I value my friendship with her and I would really hate to see it end over something so stupid as this but seriously how can I see myself as a man when i see her act so differently with my friend then she acts with me??? I know she cares for me alot as a friend, i walked home from her house, she cared enough to make sure i had a winter jacket and was warm enough for the walk (even lent me clothes)
I definatly realize how attraction works and I am not trying to get in her pants it just hurts my ego that she wont show affection to me but will to someone she doesn't know. It has nothing to do with anyone else but it just has to do with my inner game/ego... how do you guys deal with something like that??
I definatly realize how attraction works and I am not trying to get in her pants it just hurts my ego that she wont show affection to me but will to someone she doesn't know. It has nothing to do with anyone else but it just has to do with my inner game/ego... how do you guys deal with something like that??