"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Inner Game Is So Important!

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This is Mystery's formula, mystery suggests to get each step competent before progressing to the next step. So you approach and you dont close for the first few dozens of approach, you eject so you know the outcome beforehand, unless you strongly feel you have to close.

1) Find
2) Meet
3) Attract
4) Close


Finding the chick for me isn't much of a problem, meeting / approaching the chick is the hard step and inner game is part of what makes you approach without the self esteemed you need you cannot approach.

What are some proven ways to dramatically increase inner self esteem quickly as possible?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi there. You're right, inner game is extremely important when approaching! I feel that everything starts with you feeling good inside. That said, how can one improve their self esteem quickly? That's a question that could be answered in many ways, but I'm assuming what you mean is how can you get yourself feeling good about yourself and happy with you.

From my experience of life some suggestions:-

1) Get a passion in life, an interesting hobby etc. Something that exites you.

2) Be your own unique person, dress to reflect your style and identity.

3) Look your best before you leave the house EVERY DAY. When you look good, you FEEL good.

4) Watch comedy, laugh more, smile more and lighten up and enjoy life.

5) Realise that if you approach a girl, no matter how nervous you are beforehand and no matter what the outcome is, you will ALWAYS feel better after you've done the approach, since you will have conquered the fear. Your self esteem will go up with each approach.

6) Have a few close friends who you can truly trust and be yourself with.

Hope these help - if not then maybe you need to be more specific with your question. If you need any more advice I'll do my best.
 
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Often "attract" comes before "meet"

If you have a good presence. Which is just an ******d manifestation of your inner game.
 
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Player_Supreme is the man you want to talk to if you want to know about inner game, he's your man.

I suggest you do a search on his thread contributions and I believe you can also read more of his stuff at www.pimphop.com
 
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