"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Inner Game... How The Hell Do You Build It?

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I need to work on my inner game.... I belive the inner self...

I got out of a serious relationship 8 months ago... Which STILL from time to time hurts me when I think about it... Like the past 3 days have been tough...

I didnt Fclose Alot of girls maybe 3 Ever since I broke up with her...

I have a couple of goals into succeeding with woman now...

1) I deff need to change My look.... Style...
2) I need to get bigger as Im only 145 pounds
3) I need to get a car (as I sold mine 4 months ago)
4) I need to work on my inner self and FULLY GET OVER MY EX!

I belive these things That I dont have are making me feel bad Internally... If I knew I had alot of that... I would be a Successful confident person...!

I believe I need to work on developing a magnetic and charismatic personality...

Help me out Gentlemen!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gym, money (better job), clothes will be a great start for you to build confidence. Start bulking up, wear nice clothes, throw some money around and watch them attack you.
 
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Seems like you're on the right track and know what needs to be done. My best advice is that if there is something you dislike about yourself then change it. If something needs improvement then work on it. You already listed 4 things that you feel would help improve yourself. Keep at it. Inner game is all about confidence. Sometimes we need to make a few changes or surround ourselves with different people and settings in order to feel good about ourselves and feel a sense of accomplishment or confidence. Do what you got to do man.

Good luck.

-Scars
 
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Get good at stuff.

Confidence and such is bullsh1t if it's not based on actual accomplishments.

Stop looking for 'inner game' in order to accomplish things and start accomplishing things so that you develop inner game.

If you don't have the motivation to do this, then just give up because no one is going to give you magical motivational tips.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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