Inner Game... How The Hell Do You Build It?

[Slick101]

I need to work on my inner game.... I belive the inner self...

I got out of a serious relationship 8 months ago... Which STILL from time to time hurts me when I think about it... Like the past 3 days have been tough...

I didnt Fclose Alot of girls maybe 3 Ever since I broke up with her...

I have a couple of goals into succeeding with woman now...

1) I deff need to change My look.... Style...
2) I need to get bigger as Im only 145 pounds
3) I need to get a car (as I sold mine 4 months ago)
4) I need to work on my inner self and FULLY GET OVER MY EX!

I belive these things That I dont have are making me feel bad Internally... If I knew I had alot of that... I would be a Successful confident person...!

I believe I need to work on developing a magnetic and charismatic personality...

Help me out Gentlemen!

 

[Falcon25]

Gym, money (better job), clothes will be a great start for you to build confidence. Start bulking up, wear nice clothes, throw some money around and watch them attack you.

 

[nismo-4]

Gym, money (better job), clothes will be a great start for you to build confidence. Start bulking up, wear nice clothes, throw some money around and watch them attack you.

Don't forget that alcohol=sex and dinner=sleep!

Check out this response I put here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1724668#post1724668

And some people just never learn.

 

[Scars]

Seems like you're on the right track and know what needs to be done. My best advice is that if there is something you dislike about yourself then change it. If something needs improvement then work on it. You already listed 4 things that you feel would help improve yourself. Keep at it. Inner game is all about confidence. Sometimes we need to make a few changes or surround ourselves with different people and settings in order to feel good about ourselves and feel a sense of accomplishment or confidence. Do what you got to do man.

Good luck.

-Scars

 

[mrRuckus]

Get good at stuff.

Confidence and such is bullsh1t if it's not based on actual accomplishments.

Stop looking for 'inner game' in order to accomplish things and start accomplishing things so that you develop inner game.

If you don't have the motivation to do this, then just give up because no one is going to give you magical motivational tips.