Inner Game. HELP. I want to live like a lion!

[tarotale]

ok. i did the whole **** WRONG.
i am a nursing major. your body cells become tissues, tissues become organs, organs become organ systems, and organ systems make an individual.
there is no organ w/o tissue, or no tissue w/o cells.

this is where i went horribly wrong. i only seeked outer game.
i've been into dating/seduction for an year. i read so much shyt and tried
so many outer game techniques ranging from C&F, teasing, and etc.
well gave short-term attractions, but i never became what i wanted to be.

as a child, my parents really put me through the hell of negativity.
constant negative comments about me and etc. i KNOW that i am
in charge of my inner side, and i KNOW i can change this. i came to
realize that all the things i did does not work because i had bad inner game.
what does bad inner game give me? bad confidence, low value, beta-male,
worrying if i did right or wrong, giving power to women, nervous around girls... this tells that i am so beta, and that i consider myself as low value.

i can't let this go on. i must change it. i want to take care of my inner game first, and i need your help. those who conquered their inner game, suggest me some books and advices. i feel stupid that i am too nervous to walk up to a strange hot girl and talk to her. this shows that i have low confidence and bad inner game. i will never live the life of full extent that i want unless i win my inner game. this is not about just girls. i only live life just once just like everyone, and i can't stand the fact that i can't even attract a girl that I like. I can't stand the fact that i must be worrying all the time if what i said to that girl was stupid or not. i can't.

please help me achieve the inner game and become a man. i never sat down with my dad and had the "man" talk. i need to learn this shyt NOW. tell me some good books to read, give me advices. I want to live like the alpha of the pack of the lions. Thank you

 

[newbie221]

ya man instead of worrying about meeting women you should discover what you like to do, what your own hobbies and passions are, and then use those to start developing your personality.

 

[FairShake]

You want to end up being the MAN to women.

First thing, probably for a year or more, stop worrying about women!

Work on life. Make some good friends or just some people to go out with. Develop some talents. Continue maturing into the responsible adult you want to be.

All those are what a man is. And you'll be the kinda man people want to date.

PS, if you're in nursing school, try and finish that up before you worry about this. I went through it and nursing school is really tough. It should be your number 1 worry right now.

 

[CatB]

Good advice from everybody. Women are interested in guys who have plans and goals, not guys who are trying to figure themselves out.

It would be much more valuable for you to get your studies in order, get an idea of where you want to be after you get your nursing degree, and learn to enjoy your life.

Until that day, most women are going to see through any PUA tricks you try to apply on top of yourself. Your true self will always shine through.

 

[schttrj]

see, though this is motivation forum, i'll still like to dwell on the more practical side.

first figure out what that lion means to you. if you don't have the picture of your lion ready for yourself you never become a lion. what you are comfortable with, what do you want, what you can change, what you can't, everything.

look, i'm not demotivating you but try to understand that some pua terminology and self-help knowledge doesn't make you an alpha. that's what i believe. becoming an alpha is over a long period of time. you fall down, you stand up, you fall down, you stand up, then you suddenly find out you are the alpha. so go through the process.