"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

inner game affirmations

Irs88

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 13, 2008
Messages
161
Reaction score
0
I was hoping an inner game experts input on this topic.

So I joined the Sacramento lair recently. I am relatively still a newbie. Anyways, this one guy was ALL about inner game. He told me about a product that he was using for the past 30 days and talked about how great it is. Its called Magnetic Mindset by Cory Skyy.

Basically the program is every day spend about an hour saying stuff to urself(affirmations) in the mirror and writing and repeating lines in a book, etc. In time your mind will internalize you as a Man, etc. Does this work? I researched it on google and it relates a lot to self help. The reason why I am considering in doing this is because i KNOW what the right mindset is. I know so much of it from this forum. Its just that I need a way to install it all in my head so all of this is second nature to me.

Will affirmations work? Or is installing a mindset something only experience and time will give you? Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Allurre

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2008
Messages
661
Reaction score
19
This action is one of the pillar to virtually any form of success.

When repeating positive affirmations, you're buying into this new perception of yourself both consciously and subconsciously.

The more you do it, the more your behaviors start altering to what you've been affirming.
 

Violent V

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2008
Messages
278
Reaction score
8
Location
London
Hey dude

In my experience, no it doesn't work- at least not by itself.

Affirmations are not very effective. Sitting here in an empty room and telling my slong to get hard doesn't usually ever work.

In the same way, standing infront of a mirror and repeating 'i am confident' everyday doesn't really work, unless I can create a feeling that I AM confident at the same time.

How do i create that feeling? Well, to get my limp slong harder, I would need to start feeling excited and horny. How? I would do it mentally; I will use my imagination.

This is far more powerful than logic and willpower ever will be. Your body responds far more readily to vivid use of imagination than to simple command.

So in that hour, whilst doing these affirmations, close your eyes and remember or imagine in your mind a scenario which creates that feeling which relates to the affirmation. Imagine being confident. See yourself going about your day with that desired mindset. Generate that feeling STRONGLY so it is affecting your mood.

Then, make sure you are applying this consistently through out your day, in any spare time, and not just one hour in 24. The aim is to make this feeing, this mindset, a habit, to install it. It won't become second natured if your just doing it one hour a day, and resorting to your old ways for the other 23.

Also, writing these things down in a book repeatedly doesn't do anything for me. What really teaches me is when i conciously actually apply in during real life, again and again until it becomes habit and is taught.

Its like when i was learning to speak Spanish. I would write page after page after page, line after line every night Spanish phrases. And then when i was on the spot, finally speaking to a spanish guy or girl and wanted to talk, my mind would literally go blank.

I learnt more Spanish actually speaking Spanish to that guy than i did writing it down again and again on paper every night.

Installing a new mindset is very much like learning a new language; the more you apply it and speak it in real time, the more it will install in your mind.

So yeah write it down on paper now and that, but thats just working your hand- it will work more when you are writing it down in your mind instead by doing it, if that makes sense.

What sort of stuff does this program tell you to affirm to yourself?

Take care my man!

V
 

Irs88

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 13, 2008
Messages
161
Reaction score
0
Its a 3 CD program. The first CD is about inner game in general. The second CD is about the actual program. There are writting affirmations like Vision what you want and write it. There are visual affirmations like thinking of a happy moment for a while and then think about how you will be when you become a DJ.

There is a lot more to it but you say all sorts of affirmations like "I love woman" "woman love me", and some other intence ****.

I know some people right now are like "HAHAHAHHAH", but this **** actually helps a lot of people. THe guy who told me is a natural PUA after learning the game. He was telling me about all these girls he brought home and even with all that this affirmation thing helps him. Im sure next time I go out with him he can show me an actual pick up in front of me. He was a little shorter than average height, with average looks, white. Typical guy. He said it really helps. Its just the WHOLE concept sounds very ridiculous. I am usually down for w/e when it comes to inner game....but this is just over the top....

violent- i know what you mean. you can't just SAY it. you have to really MEAN IT. Like take yourself and imagine urself in that mindset. Whenever u think wow what the hell am i doing, you have to break free and say no to urself and get back into believing. All about positive thinking. This is a type of social conditioning. Its very common in psycology orginating from Pavlov's experiment. If you think about it we were socially conditioned since birth to how NOT to be a man(or at least my generation with the pusssy music, movies, etc.). all we are doing is getting back to our true man-self with these affirmations....right?

I have to think about it.
 
Top