Inner Confidence

[herotiger]

Hey guys. I just joined up cause this looks like an interesting enough place.

I was out at a club recently with some mates, and there were a few potential fights that night... which got me thinking (uh oh!) about inner confidence.

I got thinking that it's all well and good being confident in approaching women, but a woman who is interested in you will also be observing how you react to challenges from men and so being able to hande other men is integral in being an alpha male.

This includes not tolerating **** which goes against your morals, knowing how to fight and knowing how to diffuse a situation without being a pu$$y. Many men throughout the ages would have rather died in honour than face dishoner in life. Interesting to think about. Guys can get walked on if they don't know what to fight for and thats why I think it's important to get your morals solid

Even so called a$$holes who don't care about anyone apart from themselves can be attractive, since they have solidified their own morals and will. Life is a contest of wills and morals. Although, in the long run it is the fighter/diplomat that is the real alpha as he has many people on his side.

There is an inner confidence in knowing what you would do if 3 guys came up to you and started abusing your girlfriend in front of you.

I love women and they are a strong force in nature for men, in that they help keep our gender tough and manly. A woman instinctively is attracted to a man who can hold his own, the pu55ies just aren't alowed to spread their DNA. Nature is harsh and magnificent at the same time. Many men have achieved wonders under the influence of them thinking how much they will be getting laid when they are top dawgs because sex is a driving force.

Anyway, I am reviewing Bas Russen's Lethal Streetfighting and I'm going to take up some form of high contact martial art at some point because I think this is important.

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Fighting these days is so stupid, and most of the time it isnt worth it...People get hit once or twice and fall or they get jumped...My mother told me that no fight is fair, so she taught me how to use car keys to stab at people, etc...If youre that concerned, just carry a gun or a knife, cause you might be able to back people down with that if they arnt that serious and if they dont have anything on them...Most of the time when you fight its over something stupid, so just learn to carry yourself in a way that will keep people from fighting you and you wont have to worry about that kind of stuff...

 

[herotiger]

It's probably more of an individual thing.

Cheers for the advice. Personally, I won't carry a gun or a knife and also I prefer to back up a strut with skill.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Too true hero, take this attitude to the health and fitness forum, or over to bb.com(sorry mods for even metnioning this two posts in a row) where you can get some encouragement to get strong so you can defend yourself when the NEED arises.

Train for pain, thats what being a DJ is all about, be prepared for the women, and the men that are involved in AMOGing you along the way.

Good luck in your fight to have the right to party dude, don't let other people interfere with your fun by making you fight if you can. The girls will respect you more if can make an AMOG scared of AMOGing you again without using violence.

 

[preetim22]

Fighting is foolish when you can smartly avoid the situation with proper attitude. We should learn to smartly tackle the situation as this will happen every time and we cant keep fighting everytime.

 

[zekko]

I got thinking that it's all well and good being confident in approaching women, but a woman who is interested in you will also be observing how you react to challenges from men and so being able to hande other men is integral in being an alpha male.

Totally agree with this. What makes you an alpha male is your standing among other men, this is what women instinctively look for.

Fighting IS stupid, but as you say you need to be able to diffuse situations without looking like a pvssy. If another guy takes your dignity, you are no alpha, no matter what your mindset toward women is. Even a beta male should be able to be dominate toward women, that's no trick. Unfortunately the current culture has neutered and emasculated most men, so many have been rendered incapable of even that.

 

[MM92]

Fighting is not worth it. This is coming from someone who has been in more than a fair few scuffles.

It is however best to know how to fight because sometimes you don't have any choice.