"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ink all over face.

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Today at school I was walkin around so I could talk to people and while I was walkin I saw this girl sit down at a bench so I went up to her and said whats up.
She said nothin much.I was thinkn this is gonna be hard so I acted like I was lookin in my book for somethin, then I said what are you goin to school for.
she said somethin for math or some ****.Well the convo was goin nowhere really because of me so whenever I felt like the convo was stopping I would talk about me just to feel the gaps.Then I asked her what there is to do around here and then I started to bite my pen and it came apart and I got ****in ink all over my face.She was looking at me like I was such a loser and I couldnt really blame her.She then left saying she had to go to class.I wasnt really mad that I ****ed up I thought it was really funny actually.
 

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You should have started laughing about it since you thought it was funny and since it wasnt a big deal since it washes off shoudlnt have been all that big of a deal.

I kind of hate when I think back when something embarassing happened and I looked to other people for validation instead of just laughing it off since it wasnt such a big deal.
 

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j0n024 said:
You should have started laughing about it since you thought it was funny and since it wasnt a big deal since it washes off shoudlnt have been all that big of a deal.

I kind of hate when I think back when something embarassing happened and I looked to other people for validation instead of just laughing it off since it wasnt such a big deal.
bingo!
 

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yea I did a lil laugh,I didnt act like it was that big of a deal I just felt like a loser.haha
 
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