Hi guys, I've been reading around these forums for awhile now and incorporated all this information. The results have been phenomenal and I've landed my first few dates. There is some specifics that i still have questions on that i need to ask you guys about, any input would be appreciated.
I met a girl and asked her out, went on an amazing first date just getting to know each other, flawless convo. Second date was a movie date, went perfect. After the movie she offered to take me to eat and paid for me when the original plan was just to watch a movie. Asks me for my opinion (i.e what do i feel playing games is) so i guess she knows not to do that with me. She believes i try to match her texting time, so if she takes 20 mins i will too. Now all these seems to lead up to being a solid interest level. The one thing that drives me crazy is that she never initiates text messages, she initiated probably twice. I asked her to let me know when she was free and told me she'd get her work schedule the next day, she literally text me the next day and broke down her schedule with me. Other than that, i can go 5 days in between dates not texting her and she wont initiate but if i ask her out she agrees. I've asked her out twice now in the span of like 2 months. During our second date she sorta brushed up on the topic saying that she doesnt really talk to me much and that i've only text her like 3 times first. I dont really contact her often other than to setup and meet at dates. We've gone out twice in the course of like 3 weeks.
Should i be worried about this? Does this indicate low interest or something?
I met a girl and asked her out, went on an amazing first date just getting to know each other, flawless convo. Second date was a movie date, went perfect. After the movie she offered to take me to eat and paid for me when the original plan was just to watch a movie. Asks me for my opinion (i.e what do i feel playing games is) so i guess she knows not to do that with me. She believes i try to match her texting time, so if she takes 20 mins i will too. Now all these seems to lead up to being a solid interest level. The one thing that drives me crazy is that she never initiates text messages, she initiated probably twice. I asked her to let me know when she was free and told me she'd get her work schedule the next day, she literally text me the next day and broke down her schedule with me. Other than that, i can go 5 days in between dates not texting her and she wont initiate but if i ask her out she agrees. I've asked her out twice now in the span of like 2 months. During our second date she sorta brushed up on the topic saying that she doesnt really talk to me much and that i've only text her like 3 times first. I dont really contact her often other than to setup and meet at dates. We've gone out twice in the course of like 3 weeks.
Should i be worried about this? Does this indicate low interest or something?
