Initiating after number grab. when to let her?

[jay07]

I got a question for some of the more expierenced guys here. So ive been on a hot streak lately with #'s. This one girl in particular has struck my interest more than the rest. I actually had a forum the other day about the situatoon in which i asked whether or not i should pursue.

Anyways my buddy doesnt care, so i want to give it a go. Ill be honest, usually im used to the girls i start talking to initiating me all yhe time every time. But then again most of them turn out clingy/crazy. The last few girls ive pulled ive started texting them first. But this one in particular was really into our conversations and told me i made her laugh harder then she has in a while.

So i wait a few days, honestly i thought she might contact me by now, but she hasnt. Its been 3 days. I dont want to wait too long but i wanted to give it enough time to not overdo it. So my question is how much do you initiate before you stop and put the ball in her court. I feel like 3-4 times tops, and if she doesnt begin then shes not as interested as i thought. I was gonna add her on snapchat tnite and send her a sort of inside joke but i think ill wait to see how our next convo goes. Any advice?

 

[Skyline]

Just text her. If shes really interested like you pointed out, it shouldnt matter. Some girls wait for the guys to initiate nowadays via text.

 

[Mr Wright]

Some girls are weird and dont initiate texts but reply and are opening to meet etc but they just dont text first.

Just text her because chances are shes thinking the same thing.

 

[PlayHer Man]

The more time you spend chatting with her the more time you waste. You are trying to f*ck her.. not auditioning to be her BFF. Oneitis and breaking your rules because a girl is "special" is what gets men in trouble and friend zoned 99.9% of the time.

All you need to do f*ck her. If she won't let you then she isn't attracted to you. Its not complex. Don't over think it.

Once you have a number you invite her to meet you. Then you flirt and touch her a lot --> escalate. Slutty women will f*ck you immediately. Less slutty ones will play hard to get.. but will still make out with you. You'll usually f*ck them by the 2nd or 3rd meeting. Whatever.

Stop over thinking it. The time to THINK about how you feel about a woman is AFTER you sleep with her. Never before. NEVER before.

Again --> NEVER before.

 

[Lotus Effect]

Don't Be the iMan (appMan theory)

The more time you spend chatting with her the more time you waste. You are trying to f*ck her.. not auditioning to be her BFF. Oneitis and breaking your rules because a girl is "special" is what gets men in trouble and friend zoned 99.9% of the time.

Couldn't agree more.

I believe a general mistake guys make nowadays is believing in text game. The "community" try to sell this so hard that people actually believe that there's a game in text messaging.

Of course it's best to have some writing skills, and some witty comebacks, since most girls will not just drop everything from her life to go out with you, specially if the only thing you got from her was her phone number. But people tend to overthink about it too much.

The only purpose for text messaging is to set up a real date. If you spend too much time "gaming" a girl via text , and I can tell this from experience, you become the iMan, or the appMan if you will. She just literally stops seeing as mating material, and see you as an app on her mobile.

You are there. You are funny, you are flirty, you make her laugh... It's so good for her ego, so why the hell would she want to spoil that?
Angry birds is such an entertaining game, why would she delete it?

Eventually a time will come where either you will get tired of her flakiness and bail, or she will get bored with you because there is the new Angry Birds Space on appStore.

Bottomline, be short, witty and ask her out, that is it! The moment you start talking too much is the moment you LOST!

 

[jay07]

Couldn't agree more.

I believe a general mistake guys make nowadays is believing in text game. The "community" try to sell this so hard that people actually believe that there's a game in text messaging.

Of course it's best to have some writing skills, and some witty comebacks, since most girls will not just drop everything from her life to go out with you, specially if the only thing you got from her was her phone number. But people tend to overthink about it too much.

The only purpose for text messaging is to set up a real date. If you spend too much time "gaming" a girl via text , and I can tell this from experience, you become the iMan, or the appMan if you will. She just literally stops seeing as mating material, and see you as an app on her mobile.

You are there. You are funny, you are flirty, you make her laugh... It's so good for her ego, so why the hell would she want to spoil that?
Angry birds is such an entertaining game, why would she delete it?

Eventually a time will come where either you will get tired of her flakiness and bail, or she will get bored with you because there is the new Angry Birds Space on appStore.

Bottomline, be short, witty and ask her out, that is it! The moment you start talking too much is the moment you LOST!

Ah sorry but some of your points are moot.

I understand what youre saying, but i respectfully disagree with alot of them.

Ive layed many chicks with text game. In fact if i hadnt gained chemistry woth some of these chicks via text i dont believe i would havelayed them at all. Its the 21stcentury, chicks favorite thing to do is text. No girl is gonna leave a bar so she can pick up her phone to talk to you if shes out with her girls and she met you 72 hours ago for a half hour. Whats more likely is she sees my text asking to meet up, responds with where shes at then i can run it in person.

Im happy for you dudes who have success strictly setting up dates by calling. Im also sure alot of us go the text route. Its more convenient for some of us, especially in private areas.

Regarding my ?, thank you all who responded. I was curious

 

[PlayHer Man]

Couldn't agree more.

I believe a general mistake guys make nowadays is believing in text game. The "community" try to sell this so hard that people actually believe that there's a game in text messaging.

Of course it's best to have some writing skills, and some witty comebacks, since most girls will not just drop everything from her life to go out with you, specially if the only thing you got from her was her phone number. But people tend to overthink about it too much.

The only purpose for text messaging is to set up a real date. If you spend too much time "gaming" a girl via text , and I can tell this from experience, you become the iMan, or the appMan if you will. She just literally stops seeing as mating material, and see you as an app on her mobile.

You are there. You are funny, you are flirty, you make her laugh... It's so good for her ego, so why the hell would she want to spoil that?
Angry birds is such an entertaining game, why would she delete it?

Eventually a time will come where either you will get tired of her flakiness and bail, or she will get bored with you because there is the new Angry Birds Space on appStore.

Bottomline, be short, witty and ask her out, that is it! The moment you start talking too much is the moment you LOST!

Most men act like dancing clowns around women.. trying to impress them with their "look what I can do!!" desperation:

-Look how easy I can lift these heavy bags!!
-Look how funny I am!!
-Look how nice I am!!
-Look how witty I am!!

Will you sleep with me now? Please? Please? Pretty please????

FAGGOTS.

Of course women don't respect these men and just exploit them however possible. These men have revealed their worthlessness by acting like they must PROVE themselves to be worthy of a woman's vagina. Pathetic.

You don't have to prove sh!t. She estimates your value right away and either she likes you or she doesn't. She has made the decision long before you jump through your first hoop.