"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Initially attracted her with DJ ways, then LTR and chilled. Make sense??

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Well, i got this girl interested in me by using my newly learned DJ tricks. I mean, i'm a goodlooking guy so it's a bit easier..but with me kind of not giving her the attention all the time, and using ****y and funny..she went nuts. She REALLY REALLY liked me.

Soo we started going out, and now have been exclusive for 6 months. Things are pretty good.( But i mean, she is a bit of an AW. I cheated on her once, she cheated on me once..but we decided to stay together b/c it would make us stronger..in other words she is hot and i still want to hit it)

SOO..since were in the LTR in the beginning she got mad b/c i NEVER called/imed her and she always did..she was right so slowly i started calling and iming more. Then after like 3-4 months i started to call and im more..but STILL she probably call or imed more. I started being a BETTER LTR boyfriend BUT STILL..maintaiing ****y and funy..and not being clingy at all really.

HOWEVER..is it normal that the peak of her IL is in the beginning when im new? am i doing somtin wrong? Whats the deal fellas
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She lost all attraction and respect for you when you took her cheating ass back with no reprecussions. Just because she is the hottest girl in your HS is no reason to stay w/ her. Like I said before, she is just making a fool of you in front of everybody else. And what makes you think she is going to be attracted to what every else at your high school sees ... a big AFC.

Open your eyes already. You've been told, failed to take anybodies advice.

You know what, I'm not going to waste my breathe anymore. Call her up right now, tell her how much you love her, that your heart only beats for her. While your at it send over some flowers and chocolates.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56293 like blue told you already read # 10
 
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Well, first of all. We both cheated. Second, i'm not thinking that shes this LTR type of a girl..even tho thats what it is..im more in it for the action/fun. I'm in H.S. and i KNOW its just a h.s. relationship.

We lost our virginities to eachother, recently. She is still attracted to me, i know this. It's just that she doesn't CHASE as much, but there shouldnt be that in a LTR anyway?

And no, i don't act all AFC towards her. I point out when shes wrong, she calls me usually..so im not this afc buying gifts and spoiling her.
 
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basically, my gf is NOT LTR material. So as long as i dont get emotianlyl attached, ill be ok..right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by shark
basically, my gf is NOT LTR material. So as long as i dont get emotianlyl attached, ill be ok..right?
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She cheated on you, man. What do you think? And to be honest, based on what you said up there, you don't seem like LTR material either.
 
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shark-Listen I know your 17..I know that u have the whold world in front of you....

I know u love this girl..regardless of what u say.

if u stay with her..the longer you stay the more it will hurt when you lose her...which there is a 99 percent chance that will happen.

until you reach atleast 20 yrs old....the chances of LTRS lasting are crap..after 20...its starts to get better rapidly....its a case by case basis..

but at 17 its nearly a sure thing..dont do this to urself.
 
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