"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ingrown hair

Hockey Playa

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I have the king of all ingrown hairs , on my lower abdomen. I shaved my abs 2 weeks ago, and this ingrown appeared about 5 days. Its swelled up to about the size of an almond almost. Its so big i cant dig down and free the hair. I have no idea what to do, it hurts like Sh1t! should i just give it time?? ive tried applying heat and ive tried tweezers nothing worked. any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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penkitten

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i do something a little different.
i put a heating pad on the ingrown hair at night time and a little campo fene
the next day its not like a hard rock like boil anymore , its more like a pimple.

then i wash my hands and i pop it.
once you get all the infected stuff out, it usually bleeds a little.
then you can use tweezers and get the hair out.
make sure you get the hair out.

then i put triple antibiotic ointment on it after that.
 

donjuanjovi

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Just get a pocket knife and dig the little sucker out.
 
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