****ing pissed

[thebestthing]

I don't know what the hell to do. I'm freaking ticked off, breathing hard, because this chick is really hitting me where it pisses me off the most.

Me and this girl, we used to be close, right? Alright, so we'd chill together all the time, we're friends, no more. I know that goes against the DJ way, but just keep reading.

We were really close, until she got this boyfriend. Then she ditched me twice, TWICE, to hang with him instead. Saying 'oh, he's my boyfriend, I have to make time for him. I told you I might not be able to hang out anyway!'
So I say 'oh, but it's a for sure for him?'
And she says "He's my boyfriend!"

So, suddenly, after knowing me her whole life and only talking to the guy for 2 weeks, he's more important than I am?
Then I try to call her sometimes, I'll get "let me call you back" so she goes and talks to her bf all night, and I never get a ****ing call back. Ever since this guy, it's been impossible to talk to her, impossible to hang with her, and all I get is false promises 'ill call you back.'

This pisses me off to no end, I want to call her and chew her the **** out. But I don't know what to say, exactly. I'm tired of not getting any ****ing respect.

No, I CAN'T JUST CUT CONTACT. She's a family friend, her mom's like my mom [my mother passed when I was 6], it doesn't work like that. As a matter of fact, that's ALL I WANT TO DO IS CALL HER. And I KNOW thats wrong. But it's HARD to NOT do it. I DON'T know what to do to get things back to the way they were. I just want to know what the hell to do and what I can do to stop being so ****ing hurt and pissed off by this.

 

[kraytkiller]

If she's just a close friend, and your not interesting in anything more, treat her like you treat your guy friends when they get girlfriends, if you have ever been in that situation.

Just wait until she loses the boyfriend, and has more time to hang out and talk and such. Its the same thing I have to do with my guy friends...

 

[thebestthing]

If she's just a close friend, and your not interesting in anything more, treat her like you treat your guy friends when they get girlfriends, if you have ever been in that situation.

Just wait until she loses the boyfriend, and has more time to hang out and talk and such. Its the same thing I have to do with my guy friends...

Never been in that situation. I don't want to just be a convenience for her.

 

[kraytkiller]

Never been in that situation. I don't want to just be a convenience for her.

Well your not romantically involved, so you really hold no claims over her. Romance always comes first, occasionally even before close family.

Uhh, maybe it should be different for a close friend though, I don't really have any buddy buddy close childhood friends. Heh.

...Just noticed you didnt say she was a childhood friend or whatever. If she isn't you have even less claim to what she does and how she places you.

 

[Analyzeit]

Wtf man, grow up lol

Honestly she has no interest in you at all obviously, just family friends so it's pointless even posting this.

Your not hurt or pissed off because she won't talk to you as often now she's got a boyfriend, your JEALOUS but no she doesn't like you, so your going to have to suck it up and move on. Cut contact or just treat her as a friend if you can do that without getting jealous every time she goes to hang out with her boyfriend. Fact is imagine she's a male friend (Which she practically is) So your male friend gets a girlfriend he's going to be spending a bit more time with her then you, make sense just as you would if you could get sex all the time, you'd stop hanging out with your male mates a little, right??

Yes on her list, her boyfriend is in front of you and yes just because he is her boyfriend and then her boyfriend probably won't want you hanging out with you, which is fair enough would you want your girlfriend hanging out with a guy, that she actually choose to hang out with instead of you??

Your stories so lame and against the dj rules i'd swear you were a troll if you hadn't posted before, go read the bible again man. Your actually pathetic.

 

[eaglez1177]

Wow man, grow the fvck up and MOVE on, this chick has no interest and will not have any interest any time soon.

^And I agree completely, this is quite pathetic.