"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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****ing on the first date?

xomel

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Is ****ing on the first date more than likely going to lead to a one night stand?

There's this girl I hooked up with over myspace, we ****ed on the first date. The next night we hung out I tried to **** her again, she kept saying no, probably a **** test. She seemed REALLY insecure the whole time. Constantly asking if we were going out, asking if we had titles, bought my parents ground coffee for when she met them, asking if i was going to last. REALLY insecure, just wondering if I was gonna one night stand her.

I tried to make her seem more secure and make sure she knew I didnt want a one night stand but I think now I'm thinking I've over done it and she doesnt seem like she wants to spend time anymore.

Maybe its the way I am, maybe its my game, or maybe its because I hooked up with her over myspace.

Why did this just end up a one night stand?
 

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blinkwatt

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Doesn't matter how it happens or when it happens,if you 5uck on the first date,your both sluts. To answer your question,yes sometimes,not always does it lead to a one night stand.
 

violator

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Yes, it seems that it was just a ONS and nothing more.

You should have no regrets. She is your typical slut you meet at myspace. Girls like that are a dime a dozen.
 
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