SeymourCake
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Just thought I'd share in case you have shoulder issues.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Informative Video on Shoulder Mobility and Shoulder Issues
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ERB
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Exactly what I was looking for. Thanks SC
SeymourCake
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No problem. I'm glad it helped. I took a deload week from the gym last week to work out my mobility at home. Previously I would experience extreme pain in both of my rotator cuffs after doing a set of pendlay rows. I started going to the gym again this Monday and so far no shoulder pain. Tomorrow is the day I do pendlay rows so I'll let you know if I experience any pain or not.
CuddleJunkie
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Hey thanks SeymourCake. I've been having problems with my right shoulder for weeks now, but I was too much of a lazy **** to care and look how to solve it. lol