"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Infedility Girls

Italia

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Why are there so many girls that cheat. it's ridiculous!!! The past 3 girlfriends I had, they all cheated on me, within 1-2 months. I'm not sure if it's just ME or there are just too many girls at my high school that just cheat and have no respect or morals. How do you guys cope when you find out your GF cheated on you and how to see it coming.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kyontate17

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almost every girl in high school does that..if i had a girlfriend that cheated on me i just wouldnt talk to her...ill show her that i got a life witout her and smile.girls in high school r immature for a serious relationships and they dont know what they want.u need to read the dj bible some more.
 

colombiandude

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lol werd. I find it sad though, that a girl can't just stay with one guy. I've heard that theyre hornier than guys. But i highly doubt that. And if they are, thats just straight up fvckin ridiculous.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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