Infamous ex keeps hitting me up

[Gamisch]

Same story different day.

Been rolling hard . Working 7 days 12 hours at least. Tried to give her the world but it wasn't enough.

Now she's hitting me up again. Compliments and shyte that I didn't hear back then when I desperately needed it.

It's like they smell when you sincerely moved on and when you are in a upwards trajectory...

 

[CornbreadFed]

depends on why you broke up? I broke up with my ex on New Years Day and moved to a much better location and place afterwards. Eventually, she hit me up in the summer and thought of dealing with her BS/driving back in forth to the boonies was questionable for me. I ended up asking a random guy in the sauna if I should do it and he told me to be strong and avoid. I accepted his advice, but I wonder what would have happened if I met up with her that night.

 

[BaronOfHair]

It's like they smell when you sincerely moved on and when you are in a upwards trajectory...

NO ONE finds us desirable when we come across as desperate and devoid of options. Notice how even monstrous parents become much nicer, albeit only on a surface level, to their children, when said kids gain the ability to walk away and never look back

 

[Vanderdonck]

Compliments and shyte that I didn't hear back then when I desperately needed it.

This says it all.

 

[ValiantMale]

Well you never know what goes on in someones life for them to want to reach back out to you. If a girl wasnt favorable for me, i just block them. No sense in allowing them to contact me..

 

[Gamisch]

depends on why you broke up? I broke up with my ex on New Years Day and moved to a much better location and place afterwards. Eventually, she hit me up in the summer and thought of dealing with her BS/driving back in forth to the boonies was questionable for me. I ended up asking a random guy in the sauna if I should do it and he told me to be strong and avoid. I accepted his advice, but I wonder what would have happened if I met up with her that night.

Let's just say that everything we've been thaught from the RP applied.

Simultaneously I been the best man she ever had , while she was my biggest burden.

 

[Gamisch]

Well you never know what goes on in someones life for them to want to reach back out to you. If a girl wasnt favorable for me, i just block them. No sense in allowing them to contact me..

Too many ways to contact someone nowadays. Email, insta, FB, letters, ect.

In order to block someone you actually need to keep that number.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Too many ways to contact someone nowadays. Email, insta, FB, letters, ect.

In order to block someone you actually need to keep that number.

Block as much as you can. If you get a letter, tear it up and toss it.

My last ex, I blocked IG, FB, SMS, Whatsapp, phone calls, email, you name it. She messaged me on Linkedin. (How fukking lame is that, lol.) I was sipping wine and living my best life when I got her stupid, pathetic message. I read it, laughed and deleted it. Months later she (I am not making this up) Whatsapped me from her then BOYFRIEND's phone. My number had changed so she also stalked me online to find it. We are fine now, it's been years, but I never get sentimental or deep with her, just surface level hey how are you stuff. I still have her blocked on socials just bc I never bothered to unblock, I don't care.

I'm telling you this because your ex is stupid and desperate just like mine was. No disrespect. She can't stand not knowing just how great your life is now. Better to keep it that way.