"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Inexperienced girls are picky, what do you think?

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i dont know if this has occured to you, but often i find inexperienced girls to be picky about who they date.

This is what i noticed about them -

they barely or dont flirt
they are shy or not
they have much guy friends or none
they dont kino you until they get to know you better

Girls that i've nexted have mostly been these types.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There are women who just don't "get it" about flirting, affection, sex, whatever.

Don't assume good looks and nice dressing means they are worth a fukk in bed or making out or even flirting.

Or they may not be in to you.

The mistake many AFCs make is to get oneitis with somebody who is not right for them. DIsaster then ensues

If the vibe is not there, move on. Don't try to force it.

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agreed...

i dont know if this has occured to you, but often i find inexperienced girls to be picky about who they date.
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thats because they dont know what to expect, and they dont know what will happen, they want the "perfect" guy, so they will be picky.

they barely or dont flirt
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Self explanitory (they are shy and alot of them dont KNOW how to flirt properly, and are scared of making a fool of themselves)

they dont kino you until they get to know you better
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They are unsure of what to do, or HOW to do it, and the obvious reason that they are shy from inexperiance.

With these types of girls you need to be in "control" all the time, and u need to "lead" the way and KNOW what YOU are doing.

If they dont flirt, then u flirt with them, make the comfortable next to you, and after a while thhey will flirt back.

With kino.... u need to start playing with their hair and do whatever u want (as long as you do not do something that they might not want)

As long as u make them feel comfortable around you (most other guys wont know how to, and will ned up with an arkward feeling) she will immediatelly like u weather she wants to or not, cause u are different, and u make her feel "good" / "comfortable"

Laterz..
 
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dietzcoi said:

If the vibe is not there, move on. Don't try to force it.
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In nearly ALL of the cases where u are seeing an inexperianced girl the "vibe " wont be there to start off with for the obvious reason that inexperianced girls WILL be shy. Thats why u need to set the vibe, and once that is done, its smooth sailing from there on.;)

Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Inexperienced women give lousy BJs.
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they all have to start somewhere... remember that. :rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by aequitas
they all have to start somewhere... remember that. :rolleyes:
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yea..just watchout, any one of us could be their next victim :eek:

girls dont have to be shallow, but god damn, their shyness can really get to you sometimes. damn inexperience girls like to take things slow. Bet theyre waiting for their prince charming... :rolleyes:
 
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Inexperienced girls tend to be the younger ones.

At worst they tend to be too idealistic about relationships and boyfriends. Framing themselves as Cinderellas or some sterotypical female lead in a hollywood romance film. Unfortunately this oftens means they have unrealistic and totally skewed expectations of what a man should be. Yes Media and Oprah really is to blame. Hopefully they do grow out of it, but may take several broken hearts and a string of "princes" to beat her upside the head with the reality stick.

Been a victim of bad BJ is a quality problem (as long as no teeth are involved), read a magazine or something.
 
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Yup, and the media is to blame for guys wanting the perfect looking girl...

Gosh, the MEDIA really knows how scr ew things up, huh?

It's TRULY hilarious when you think about it...
 
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yea..media.

you never had this kind of problem in the middle ages. barely anyway.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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.^.

Originally posted by ScrewIt
yea..media.

you never had this kind of problem in the middle ages. barely anyway.
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Times change :)
 
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I can picture our ancient cavemen ancestors now keepin a don juan forum scrawled in a corner of a cave somewhere.

Ugh: *grunt* U think it AFC to give Ughatha whole Gazelle?
Thrud: U AFC, u also no wait 3 moons till drag her back to cave, U go ponder on DJ stones now.
Ugh: I suppose making a request for cohabitation is out of the question as well then?
 
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Apparently women can be AFCs too.

Whodathunkit?
 
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