"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Inexperience young man needing some perspective and advice.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So4real said:
I work at a print shop that specializes in putting graphic vinyl on commercial vehicles. I guess.....the girl in question according to alot of people isn't really all that. For me though, I saw past her exterior and was intrigued with her character and her potential. So how low should I go? I must be more hideous than I thought lol
Thats your problem right there man. Ditch the I'm hideous attitude. I'm a fatso and I land some nice looking women. It's all in how you percieve yourself. If you think your sexy then you are man. I've had women tell me that my charisma and attitude are what turns them on. Do the whole Tony Soprano thing. He was an ugly **** but the attitude made him cool as ****. Also chasing $ will make women chase you.
 

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NEPA said:
Thats your problem right there man. Ditch the I'm hideous attitude. I'm a fatso and I land some nice looking women. It's all in how you percieve yourself. If you think your sexy then you are man. I've had women tell me that my charisma and attitude are what turns them on. Do the whole Tony Soprano thing. He was an ugly **** but the attitude made him cool as ****. Also chasing $ will make women chase you.
that's it in a nutshell
 
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