"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Themanthatcan

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Christmas is around the corner and I'm completly broke.(NO, really- BROKE)Date ideas?I was thinking maybe cooking for her or something.Help appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're in FL.. warm weather, possible beach options..

What to do on a date, cost, comes up repeatedly. I have a list of things I like doing, actually written out. I pick from that, not worrying too much about making her happy. If her happiness means I'm unhappy, then it doesn't make sense.

Don't worry about spending $. It's the feelings and the experience you share with her.

I'm in northern Cali.. similar situation to yours. For cheap dates, I can go see Christmas displays, the two of you can tell Santa what you want, I'd take her to the ocean, explore the marine life (tide pools, starfish, etc); acting like a kid again is a great feeling. Sports are fine at all times. Cooking is a great idea, but I'd do it together. Candles and massages are fine around Christmas.. around halloween, around.. whatever. Google for date ideas. As long as it's fun, it's fine.
 
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Thanks but, it's 30 degrees in FL right now.Theres no way I'm touching water.Cooking,together.Check.Yeah, maybe I'll try something w/ sports.Who knows.I'll take your advice and google too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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