"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Indirect Openers

Krassus

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As those of you who've been out with me already know, i'm a strong proponent of direct / natural game, meaning that generally speaking, i'm flat-out against indirect approaches. However, when i feel like going a little crazy and having some fun, i may bust out a unique indirect approach or two. Here's one, and i'll post more as i come up with them in the future.

2Pac is Alive
Me (extremely excited): Oh my god! OH. MY. GOD! Did you guys hear?!
Them: What? What??
Me: 2Pac... IS ALIVE!!!
Them: OMG! Really?!!
Me (suddenly laid-back): Nah, not really :) But i'm not a particularly cold-hearted person, and after hearing 30 guys approach girls with "so are you guys having a good time tonight?" i wanted to spare you guys another miserable experience ;) Hey, i'm MC :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That's actually a direct opener.
 

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Martin Shabazz Jr. said:
That's actually a direct opener.
And it's a lame :down:
 
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