"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Indirect Kisses

dohta

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I've been reading this forum for the past 2 months or so and I didn't come across any information on indirect kisses. What I mean by an indirect kiss is when you and a girl are sitting near each other with only one drink and you two drink off the same straw/cup.

Does doing this indicate any level of interest or is it a signal of the friendszone?

Does this depend on how long I've known the girl for?

Anyone have some good (possibly C+F) lines to use when a girl intentionally reaches over YOUR drink to drink it instead of drinking her own?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sanyo7878

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Dude, its just my opinion but I wouldn't consider a girl drinking after you an IOI or a friendzone signal. I know lots of people who don't have a problem at all drinking after people they know. Sure, go for the C + F line if you want.. say something like... "do you drink after everyone? because you know drinking after someone is really about the same as kissing them... (then pick up the glass and drink out of it with a big smerk on your face)"
 

asdfghjkl

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Ill, i never let other people drink my drinks...backwash:nono: gross
 
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