"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Indirect Kisses

dohta

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I've been reading this forum for the past 2 months or so and I didn't come across any information on indirect kisses. What I mean by an indirect kiss is when you and a girl are sitting near each other with only one drink and you two drink off the same straw/cup.

Does doing this indicate any level of interest or is it a signal of the friendszone?

Does this depend on how long I've known the girl for?

Anyone have some good (possibly C+F) lines to use when a girl intentionally reaches over YOUR drink to drink it instead of drinking her own?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sanyo7878

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Dude, its just my opinion but I wouldn't consider a girl drinking after you an IOI or a friendzone signal. I know lots of people who don't have a problem at all drinking after people they know. Sure, go for the C + F line if you want.. say something like... "do you drink after everyone? because you know drinking after someone is really about the same as kissing them... (then pick up the glass and drink out of it with a big smerk on your face)"
 

asdfghjkl

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Ill, i never let other people drink my drinks...backwash:nono: gross
 
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