Indirect Game/true Indifference

[organizedconfusion]

i am naturally indifferent,only because i was raised to be.My parents plopped me in front of a tv since i was 5 years old and left me alone for HOURS at a time..i used to try to gain their approval and acceptence but with no luck,they were simply too busy and tired from work.Once i lost the desire to please them, i pretty much loss the desire to please anyone else..because if you can't please your parents and can't gain their approval- then why should it matter in the rest of the world whom you gain approval/acceptence from? so it no longer mattered anymore and i took my approval and acceptence from them..fast forward to today, called it an indifferent personality or simply really not giving a rat's azz-whatever. Attraction isn't a choice, a girl dosen't choose to feel attracted to a guy...what does that really mean exactly? it means that she dosen't conciously choose to feel attracted to you but if you push the right buttons- she will automaticly feel a strong attraction no matter what her mind thinks of you, you will be communicating with her directly with her emotions..and we all know that woman are governed by their feelings,strike up an intense emotion in a girl and she'll get her panties all wet just in your presence.What does this have to do with indifference- well more often then not,it communicates alot of the right things; i am my own boss,i do as i please, i answer to no one, i need no one to be happy, i don't even have to be polite or courtious if i don't feel like it..in general, i don't need YOU or anyone else for that matter..a type of fierce independence.And a ferocious image of being supremly unatainable..automaticly communicates that you are the prize and you are the one worth of being pursuing...this is my exact mindset,this is just the way i am and always been- this is no act.

Indifference dosen't always mean being emotionless or woofin' and strutting around like Eminem acting like you don't care (which totaly contradicts itself,if he really dosen't 'give a fvck' then why's he always soo angry about something?..makes you wonder what got shoved up his ass eh?..maybe not..i don't want to know!)


okay ,imagine this scanario- you meet a girl and she is really cool to hang out with and she is fun as hell, you feel as if you connect on that special level and she may be the one.But it feels like theres something missing, like you don't really have her approval all the way..and eventhough she's really fun and the connection is there-she never really gives you what you want (admitingly or not)..her approval,reconition,knowledge of exclusivity-whatever it may be.It's a kind of emotional distance that keeps her at bay and you never know what she's thinking or feeling,because she dosen't really express it in words- but in her actions,she dosen't really need to be hugged or held but it's nice and she appretiates it.She likes you ,but you can sense that her life would'nt be any less enjoyable without you...she dosen't need you but she enjoys your company.How would that make you FEEL? that is indifference at its finest..

indifference at it's darkest is the guy that really dosen't care about the girl one bit and is only with her because she gets her panties in such a bundle over him.I have been with alot of girls simply because they (for some reason) enjoy being ignored and like to chase i guess,i usually never have to pursue them because they simply try soo hard to get my attention that it dosen't matter..they do all the work.if i notice a girl i like, i simply cue her in that i like her - and i don't even have to say or do anything weird,my attraction alone directs me naturally in how to act to communicate interest to her..if i see that she responds then i proceed,if not then i flake her instantly.

I think that guys misread their own attraction signals and misapply their techniques for getting girls...instead of reading naturally into how that girl makes them feel at that moment and then running with the emotions,they get caught up and weirded out by it- and try to use a routine or technique to communicate attraction to her ,but in reality- the best way to communicate attraction is just to let it flow out naturally..when you are afraid ,your entire body signals all the natural cues that you are afraid,when you are sick your body does the same, when you are happy etc..when you are attracted to someone,guess what? yup..same thing,your body gets natural signals that communicate attraction to that part of the brain that picks it up unconciously and without thinking about it..it gives you that vibe..in my experiance anyways, i can always tell who would be wildy attracted to me and ones that would'nt be but could be if i sub-communicated it effectivly.

What does this have to do with indifference? because indifference solely relies on indirect game ,i truthfully believe that all of the greatest seducers of the past knew how to instinctivly apply and use indirect game correctly...making it devastatingly effective in seduction...seduction implies inticing into wrong doing and sexual stuff, i forget..anyways, i also think that indirect game is the only true seduction method that ever existed and renders all this mass produced seduction tatics useless in comparison- but true seduction at it's purest form is soo misunderstood and shrouded in mystery that it's not anything different than anything else nowadays.Mostly because indirect game-true indirect game relies on a strong mindset and is governed by a true sense of emotional awarness and instincts...something only experiance brings for most people,in a true essense..knowing ones self completly,from their emotional reactions to their mindset,self-mastery-and allowing your instincts to take over and trusting your instincts to do what will get the desired outcome.


this is what governs indirect game, the ability to go into a situation and size people up instantly (initially of course, you can't possibly know everything about a person by just looking at them and sensing a vibe, but you can always tell how they are usually by looking at them- i do anyways) and then following your instincts on how to proceed..indirectly and under the radar.You can seduce girls away from their boyfriends,married woman,girls that have been hurt,whatever it may be..if you wanted to with indirect/indifference game ..because if applied correctly,it has a devasting effect on the woman..why and how? because it communicates directly inside her and it triggers her emotional responses that's seemingly out of her control...that response, is what exactly what drives her crazy with desire. it's like a light switch that goes off inside of her and she instantly reconizes it when it's flipped...and it throws everything like rationalization and good judgement out the window!!

 

[organizedconfusion]

indifference -is not soley ignoring someone or not caring about anything,indifference is an air of detatchment and the ability to distance oneself from outside stimuli if needed be- but it is also a fierce independence and wildly free sprirt- both very naturally attractive traits.People who are indifferent are natural TAKERS of the world,the ones getting chased,wooed over and pawend over- naturally attracting willing givers and chasers (crazed groupie types) it's gonna be very hard being a TAKER and not caring if you are an natrual GIVER,but then again- givers make excellent seducers because of their natural ability to want to give and get pleasure from doing for others, you give the type of attention that us takers LOVE- but knowing when to become indifferent is the key to seduction for that type..that's a whole nother story - but you get the idea, it perfectly compliments the other and it creates an intense natural push pull attraction amounst the two.

indirect game- in my definition is anything that sub-communicates a strong message directly at someone inside them, at the core of their emotions(in this sense,we talking about sexual attraction) it triggers an intense emotional response indirectly and subtly to the eye, but it directly takes a stab at their emotional responses.

i have been applying this type of seduction for the past six years and still in the process of mastering this type of true seduction.To me the process goes as follows-

*indirect game as an opener- IOAs;natural sexual attraction cues/signaling (honest signals of attraction) through experiance, i learned to read how someone effects me emotionally and i respond to it by naturally allowing my instincts to govern how i treat and react to them.In attraction,there are subtle signals that are passed back and forth during what i call 'the mating ritual'.When a guy see's a girl he's interested in and he then knows instinctivy how to sub-communicate his sexual interest and availability,and vice versa...i am not sharing what the specific cues are though .This VITAL step in the phase in the first meeting will either make or break the deal...instantly in the blink of an eye.


*direct game + indifference= having an awesome time with a girl,but then withdrawing almost completly from verbal reconition of where the relationship is headed and never really establishing boundaries with her.enjoying her company but never really establishing if it's gonna go anywhere or not..keeps them guessing and interested because she never really has a grasp on you.But the feelings of attraction are soo intense that she is convinced that there MUST be something more.

*more indirect game as an attraction intensifier= those fleeting moments of increased arousal and attraction, when you are both in deep conversation and your eyes lock and you know that the seuxal attraction is boiling deep inside you and her..but you just let it linger and take it's effect and enjoy the moment. Or the times when you are just hanging out and your eyes lock onto one another and you both get that intense warm feeling of attraction- you could act on it,but extending that feeling and letting it linger,even just the reconition of it (knowing and feeling that something is 'there') creates a magnificant sexual attraction and chemistry between the two of you.Because once that feeling is there, you know that there is that special something between the two of you. The tingly feeling you get when you think about them...

thats it soo far for me anyways, i just let it linger in the gray area between friendship ,love,sex and attraction- they are soo pumped up and euforic from all the emotions being pumped into them that they become trapped and dependent on me..they need me.why? i still haven't figured that part out yet all i know is that it works wonders for me.I learned ALOT understanding on how to apply this type of attraction through reading The Art of seduction by robert greene ( to my suprise, i am a natural seducer archtype) and also getting into David D's material on Mastery and Deep Inner Game (the ****y funny stuff, REALLY isn't my style- but i have used it to enhance attraction). i will master the TRUE art of seduction and i will develop my own style that surpasses EVERYTHING there is out there today ...

now will i lay 1,000,001 girls during this time frame? no,will i become the greatest pick up artist in the world? no,but i will be-with persistance and patience and with an observing EGO, to see what works,what dosen't and the ability to chop and change effectivily when needed be- in time, i am convinced that anywhere,anyplace and anytime...i will have the ability to not only induce an intense sexual attraction in a woman,but that i will also be able to seduce nearly ANY woman.I have seen it with my own eyes this inate ability inside of me to think otherwise,even at it's early developmental phases i see it's potential...

sure some of you may say that there is more to life then woman and i should'nt be soo concerned with them- understandable, but this has less to do with woman and more to do with my ability and self-mastery to attract them..it's the skillset and mastering it that's important here ,not the goal of bedding a ton of girls..that's just a side benefit to it all.Seriously,imagine putting aside 10 years of your life to master something like making money or a carreer and never having to worry about money again..this is similar,but instead of financial security, it's about setting up emotional security that no matter what happens in the future, you got this part of your life handled..imagine never having to worry about being alone..EVER,because you took out the time and put in the effort and been through hell and back to develop a priceless skillset/mindset that will ensure your happiness and well being..forever :yes:

now why exactly am i sharing this? to toot my own horn?no,but to remind you that it's not that one approach, that one girl that didn't call back, the one little set back that makes you feel like you want find a rope, tie a noose and call it a day..'goodbye cruel world!!"..gggggaaaaaaaakkkk...okay not cool,not even funny :nono:

it's about developing the skillset and the mindset that it takes..thats what it's all about...just a friendly reminder from your neighborhood spiderman :crazy:

 

[organizedconfusion]

but there is a somewhat of a paradox..the selective use of 'intense focused attention' towards her,making her feel as if she is the only person in the world that matters.Usually done during deep rapport,or intense intimacy.But it's the alternation between deep rapport,indifference and attraction.It's that uncertainty that keeps them on their toes and intensly interested and stuck on you...duh.No secret there, the real skill is knowing when to go into these states naturally when the situation arises on their own ( but also knowing how to maneuver things so that these situation naturally occur on their own)

dosen't this contradict being indifferent by opening up during intimacy? yes and no, yes because now you are no longer indifferent and you are showing her a deeper ,different side of you..No,because you aren't like that all the time..it's a very selective moment and you choose to open up to her, but the overall personality and air to you is..a detached,cool,level headed,seemingly unobtainable person.she may even get the impression like ' i really know him..she may think that but deep down inside,she still has a fear of..do i really? ...this is just common sense...and what keeps you interesting..

this is wildy magnetic and wickdly seductive- it creates a puzzle or mystery that intrigues,frustrates and fascinates all at the same time... because once you figure something out or think you do..it's no longer as interesting, you may even take it for granted..but something unfathomable and unexplainable ,intices and magneticly draws people in naturally...i know this has been discussed before ,but i use it now to illustrate that even when being indifferent, the use of selective 'intense focused attention' during intimacy has it's own power.Some people may think that being indifferent means being cold and mean all the time, no- it's a generalized way of looking at things.But truth be told,indifferent is being self-reliant and indepent of others- but still of course being able to connect on an very intimate level just like the rest of the human population,it's the uncertainty of it and how to get to it is what makes it most alluring..