"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Indifference works

Ares III

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Indifference really works.

I’m in class yesterday and this chick who’s been digging me all semester is trying to get me to go on a road trip with her. All the way to Tampa, Florida from Louisiana. Of course I play Mr. Non-chalant and her hands are all over me trying to get my attention away from the school newspaper that I’m casually browsing. I tell her that I’ll consider it and she enlists the efforts of another girl (she’s not nearly as hot) to persuade me to go.

Long story short, I played it cool although I was excited to get out of the state. Hell, I’m always trying to get out of La. But I didn’t let any of it show in my face; instead I just told her and the friend that if I didn’t have anything better going on at the end of December, I might accompany them. I have two really good friends in FL so even if these girls turn out to be crazy, I’ve got transportation and places to stay.

It’s been my experience that whenever I just don’t seem to care about the outcome of something dealing with women, they fall all over themselves for me. Chicks weird me out sometimes. :confused:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sean O

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True. Just don't take it so far as to make the chick think that you aren't interested in her.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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yep, all bout balance
 
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