"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Indifference works

Ares III

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Indifference really works.

I’m in class yesterday and this chick who’s been digging me all semester is trying to get me to go on a road trip with her. All the way to Tampa, Florida from Louisiana. Of course I play Mr. Non-chalant and her hands are all over me trying to get my attention away from the school newspaper that I’m casually browsing. I tell her that I’ll consider it and she enlists the efforts of another girl (she’s not nearly as hot) to persuade me to go.

Long story short, I played it cool although I was excited to get out of the state. Hell, I’m always trying to get out of La. But I didn’t let any of it show in my face; instead I just told her and the friend that if I didn’t have anything better going on at the end of December, I might accompany them. I have two really good friends in FL so even if these girls turn out to be crazy, I’ve got transportation and places to stay.

It’s been my experience that whenever I just don’t seem to care about the outcome of something dealing with women, they fall all over themselves for me. Chicks weird me out sometimes. :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sean O

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True. Just don't take it so far as to make the chick think that you aren't interested in her.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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yep, all bout balance
 
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