"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
We were scheduled to meet last night but i cancelled it because i had a bad hangover form the weekend...and she initially wanted to do something with me on the weekend but i postponed it to yesterday, Monday....which i just cancelled last night..text convo yesterday:
Me: how was your weekend i have a massive hangover (my nice way to cancel)
Her: lol, so you called in sick to work today
Me: no, unfortunately, i am here
Her: if you are tired it's okay, you can take a rest
Me: really, yeah, that would be great, let's just postpone it...hope you are not upset
Her: no, i don't care!
Me: look i am sorry...just something unplanned came up last night and i ended up drinking a lot more than i thought
She then calls me and we have a brief convo and she tries to play it off and says it didn't bother her....
Later last night i get a random text from her...
Her: Thank you for giving me space to do something tonight
I'm listening to you as a good girl always haha miss you And you know...this text actually made me feel guilty...because i hate it when someone i am attracted to cancels on me....this is the one thing i hate about having plates..it's almost impossible not to treat them like crap when you are really spinning...i just don't get it..if i was her i would next my ass immediately...
I love how she made a feeble attempt at turning it around.. "Thank you for giving me space to do something tonight" hahaha.
But it is sad, and women are people too. That's why I don't think that the manosphere guys -- who always talk trash about women -- actually know any.
Keep in mind though, that you indeed have given her a gift... the best gift of all.. the gift of missing you.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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BULLSH!T !!Zarky said:
You turned off reputation because 2000+ posts of "manosphere sucks herp, yall can't get laid derp, pof whales rule, wow just wows, OMG's and tee hee hee's" starts to grate.
There's only so much chick speak most sane men can stomach from a 38 year old "man".
On a side note I have noticed you've curbed your lame faux chick shock "Wow.. just wow's " of late. Thank fvck.
She texts me today asking to come to my place on the weekend..i am sorry going out of town for the weekend...she says yeah right, probably going clubbing or to the beach to look for girls...me...that's what i usually do, but this time it's legit.....she then asks me for Wednesday..i said ok..because i should be rested up from the weekend by then...then she says just promise not to stand me up again...i am starting to forget what you look like....i told her...think Brad Pitt....she said hahaha you always know how to make me laugh...women really are pathetic when you break them down...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.