"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MG69

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i would like to suggest that is there a way the forum can track which thread a user has posted in so that he can follow up the thread

there are so many great posts sometime i dun even rem whih of the thread i have participated in....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I totally second this if there is a way to do it. I post an awful lot and it does get confusing sometimes to keep up with all the discussions I'm participating in. Thanks, MG.



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I haven't been posting to that many threads lately (pesky work stuff is killing my free time - damn making a living is getting in the way of living) so I don't have a lot of threads to keep track of for now. But to find the ones that I am involved in I just do a search based on my user name.

Two additions I would like to see though (that would also make this a little easier).

1) It would be nice if the search results could be returned (or sorted) from newest to oldest.

2) It would also be nice to be able to search all forums at once (instead of one at a time).

If server side processing time is an issue with letting everyone search every forum at once (all you need is a few people searching every message for the word 'the' to bring everything to a grinding halt). Perhaps a seperate search page that only allows user name searches of all forums would be appropriate. It should keep the bandwidth and server requests down (at least within acceptable levels).

Just my thoughts on the subject.


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Ghost_x01 wrote:

Two additions I would like to see though (that would also make this a little easier).

1) It would be nice if the search results could be returned (or sorted) from newest to oldest.

2) It would also be nice to be able to search all forums at once (instead of one at a time).


I have been looking for something like that too, and here is what I found so far. To do a search for your posts across all forums, do this:

First go to one of your posts and click the "face icon". It's located right after the date and time of your post. The face icon also displays a tool tip if you're using IE and you hover the mouse over it. The tool tip will say:
"click here to see the profile for [your user name]"

After clicking that icon, you'll get a grid displaying your profile information or lack thereof.

Just above the grid in the upper left corner is a link that says:
"Search: All posts by this registered user"

Click that link.

The good news is that it will search all the forums, and it will even sort the results by date for each forum you posted in.

The bad news is it is limited to finding 200 posts per forum, and the biggest problem of all is that there is nothing there (in this view) to tell you that one of those threads got new posts on it since the last time you checked.

Hope that helped.

DeepBlue
 

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Thanks DeepBlue, I never noticed that option before. It cuts down on some of the effort of tracking posts.


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is a very DAMN GOOD idea, it would be super-helpful.

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