"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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For those of us who read and print out the DJ bible, it would be useful if all additions had date beside them since they are not in date order. Just put a date when the thread was added next to the title line of the post in the DJB rather than having just the title.


For example, in Chapter B the last topic is indicated by the title line:

indy- EXAMPLES OF ****Y + FUNNY


I am suggesting the title line should look something like this:

added 05/24/2002: indy- EXAMPLES OF ****Y + FUNNY





[This message has been edited by tonight (edited 06-10-2002).]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Come on mods, if you update the DJ Bible, at least indicate when the new topics were added because some of them are placed out of order (in chapter E for example). This way if I just want to read the updates it will be easy to find them.

Some action from the mods would be appreciated.
 
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