mltpl_rndmns1
Don Juan
heres the situation.
i am in college and this chick 2 years junior caught my eye. took her number from a friend, called her up making some excuse, then talked to her on chat and one more phone call. wasnt going well.
this went on for like 2 months. communicated with her only 3-4 times. she flaked quite a lot.
i have never talked face to face with her or even said hi. whenever i see here in college, our eyes meet....it looks like she wanna say something...dont know. i didnt have the balls to approach or later, even talk to her. (the reason behind this is i have been with like 3-4 girls in my college and although she doesnt know any1 of them, i dont wanna lose out on my future game by being seen in public with her all romantic/lovey-dovey. i have this reputation of being the guy who hits on a lot of girls and its not really serving me well...atleast i think thats the reason). anyhow....
i chatted with her through im yesterday and it all was going well, until something strange happened. i dont know what it was but it ruined everything. i had to do damage control and i think i managed somehow.
anyhow here are my two important queries:
1. do all these principles at sosuave and other dating sites (cold approach, c&f, etc) work in indian environment? and if yes, what the hell am i doing wrong? (for all those, who wanna know the details of indian dating scene, post a question or pm me...precisely, its a lill more conservative than american culture, although its changing fast.)
2. would anyone be kind enough to read that conversation i had yesterday with the girl and point out specifically where i went wrong? (i have a copy of it so i can pm you or mail it to u). experienced djs only plz. i was using a lot of c&f and sarcasm and till this point, i thought i did fine. maybe she's a problem child. any info about her background or mine necessary, just ask me.
help me out guys , seems like i have lost the touch (or never had it). i wanna improve and i wanna practice. (thoughts like my 1st query didnt allow me to participate in ongoing bootcamp).
i am also looking for a mentor. life's pretty f---ed up rite now. looking forward to your support.
thnks guys.
i am in college and this chick 2 years junior caught my eye. took her number from a friend, called her up making some excuse, then talked to her on chat and one more phone call. wasnt going well.
this went on for like 2 months. communicated with her only 3-4 times. she flaked quite a lot.
i have never talked face to face with her or even said hi. whenever i see here in college, our eyes meet....it looks like she wanna say something...dont know. i didnt have the balls to approach or later, even talk to her. (the reason behind this is i have been with like 3-4 girls in my college and although she doesnt know any1 of them, i dont wanna lose out on my future game by being seen in public with her all romantic/lovey-dovey. i have this reputation of being the guy who hits on a lot of girls and its not really serving me well...atleast i think thats the reason). anyhow....
i chatted with her through im yesterday and it all was going well, until something strange happened. i dont know what it was but it ruined everything. i had to do damage control and i think i managed somehow.
anyhow here are my two important queries:
1. do all these principles at sosuave and other dating sites (cold approach, c&f, etc) work in indian environment? and if yes, what the hell am i doing wrong? (for all those, who wanna know the details of indian dating scene, post a question or pm me...precisely, its a lill more conservative than american culture, although its changing fast.)
2. would anyone be kind enough to read that conversation i had yesterday with the girl and point out specifically where i went wrong? (i have a copy of it so i can pm you or mail it to u). experienced djs only plz. i was using a lot of c&f and sarcasm and till this point, i thought i did fine. maybe she's a problem child. any info about her background or mine necessary, just ask me.
help me out guys , seems like i have lost the touch (or never had it). i wanna improve and i wanna practice. (thoughts like my 1st query didnt allow me to participate in ongoing bootcamp).
i am also looking for a mentor. life's pretty f---ed up rite now. looking forward to your support.
thnks guys.
