I met this chick at school who is from India. She's really nice but really shy, I guess because she hasn't been her in the US for very long. Anyway, it always seems like Indians don't usually date outside of their race except on rare occasions. So is there much likelihood I wouldhave a chance with her and if so, how do you approach Indian chicks as a stupid white American? Thanks for any advice.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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SageOFAllenAge
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Im an Indian & i agree with r3n3gad3.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I am indian and here are my two cents,
there are two varieties of indian women,
the one you have is born in india is likely conservative ; Take out your bling bling and your s-class on dubs and tell her " no dowdry for you if you spread you pzzy" just kidding.
the other variety that has been born here , its the complete opposite they will go out of their way to date 'white' guys. Some of born-here types i've met started ****ing at 18 have racked up a list of guys long enough for her to be a comparable white hoe.
Having said that, in my experience , the former conservative type of women is far more perferrable to the latter , they are very moraled and you know you are getting a women who is no slut , she doesn't have so much make up she looks like a fking drag queen. She's more malable as opposed to dealing with the '*****' attitude of some of her more liberal counterparts. If you **** her, she'll be yours for all of time. its your call . peace out.
there are two varieties of indian women,
the one you have is born in india is likely conservative ; Take out your bling bling and your s-class on dubs and tell her " no dowdry for you if you spread you pzzy" just kidding.
the other variety that has been born here , its the complete opposite they will go out of their way to date 'white' guys. Some of born-here types i've met started ****ing at 18 have racked up a list of guys long enough for her to be a comparable white hoe.
Having said that, in my experience , the former conservative type of women is far more perferrable to the latter , they are very moraled and you know you are getting a women who is no slut , she doesn't have so much make up she looks like a fking drag queen. She's more malable as opposed to dealing with the '*****' attitude of some of her more liberal counterparts. If you **** her, she'll be yours for all of time. its your call . peace out.
Thanks for all the feedback on this. My motives aren't really to bang her(although that would be good too) but she seems like a really nice person in addition to being really attractive. I've always been fascinated with India, Hinduism, etc. and I guess that plays into it as well. I was just not sure if being a white American, non-Hindu would pretty much eliminate me from the start.
AlwaysLearning
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You gotta realize what you want...
If you just want to get to know her, then be real nice about it. Indian girls are obsessed with Indian films, all of which are love flicks. All the guys they like are cutey pie nice dudes. So if you're nice, she'll respond.
In the US, you gotta be a masculine DJ to get to know women, but with this Indian chick it may turn her off. Just be a decent, moral dude and she'll open the door to get to know her better.
-AL
If you just want to get to know her, then be real nice about it. Indian girls are obsessed with Indian films, all of which are love flicks. All the guys they like are cutey pie nice dudes. So if you're nice, she'll respond.
In the US, you gotta be a masculine DJ to get to know women, but with this Indian chick it may turn her off. Just be a decent, moral dude and she'll open the door to get to know her better.
-AL
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ok, I actually talked to this chick the other day but didn't really get anywhere. She's really nice and friendly but she doesn't speak great English and communication can be difficult. She's totally un-Americanized as far as I can tell, although I conisder that a positive quality for the most part. However, I don't know how to approach this. It's not quite like going after an American chick. If I tried to get a number, she might not even know why I asked for it.
indian girls are hot.....especially the americanized/canadianized ones.
Where I live there is a large portion of people from india (about 10%) or so. (mostly born here but some born in india). Most indian chicks born here I see w/ other guys of their race. An indian girl i know said she prefers brown guys as opposed to white guys. But if you live in an area where there are hardly any other people of their own race (especially) then you should have as good of a chance as anyone.
But as mentioned the americanized indian girls tend have a much higher hoe ratio than you might expect.....they are very hot but a good portion of them are h0es.
Where I live there is a large portion of people from india (about 10%) or so. (mostly born here but some born in india). Most indian chicks born here I see w/ other guys of their race. An indian girl i know said she prefers brown guys as opposed to white guys. But if you live in an area where there are hardly any other people of their own race (especially) then you should have as good of a chance as anyone.
But as mentioned the americanized indian girls tend have a much higher hoe ratio than you might expect.....they are very hot but a good portion of them are h0es.
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I'm gonna check out and Indian chic now too.But she seems to be americanized if you will.But she thinks I'm indian too(lol)I hear they don't like blacks or latinos so i'm pretty much skrewed if she more traditional type broad.
But whatever wheter Hindu,muslim,catholic,european..it don't matter.I rocc hoes like it's ok.
But whatever wheter Hindu,muslim,catholic,european..it don't matter.I rocc hoes like it's ok.
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Family is important to her, ( get her talking about this ) ...yes, you have to be more persistent with her than other race girls . ian19, if you have a more conversative girl, you are in luck ; a gem awaits you if you play your game right. a longterm strategy with her would be a better idea here. I can tell you straight off right now all the game playing like neg hits ( social poof might work ) are a waist of time because She simply doesnt 'need' a relationship, she gets it arranged perhaps. being non-her-religion yes is a set back if your looking for the longterm, but convince her that you are open minded to her culture and impress her with some of your hindu knowledge.
If time would go back 4 years, I would never have let my first indian gf get away.
peace.
If time would go back 4 years, I would never have let my first indian gf get away.
peace.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Wow that thing about the films is right on. Not sure about the nice dudes thing. I dated an indian girl, an americanized one, and she didn't seem to be into that nice guy thing as much, but I'm not sure. She had some pretty big issues she was dealing with at the time and freaked out on me.
At my college, almost half of the chicks are indian here. Approach them the say way you would anyone else, they aren't a special breed. While what was said about where they grew up is a bit overly generalized, it is mostly true. It really isn't anything to fret over though.
On the one hand, it is good that you're wondering how to make the approach. On the other, you should go out and try stuff before thinking too hard.
Kelson
On the one hand, it is good that you're wondering how to make the approach. On the other, you should go out and try stuff before thinking too hard.
Kelson
cmon
First of all....way to be a real man with confidence by calling yourself a 'stupid white american' How retarded.
Dude, just freakin approach the girl.
ALl this stuff on here makes me sick. You guys just need to talk to the damn girl, wow, is it that hard?
Talk see where her head is at, and go from there.
There are no secrets, there are no routines, lines, etc.
Just talk. If she has an attitude its her problem.
Or should i give some lame advice like this:
Approach her from the left at a 78 degree angle. Smile, slightly. DOnt blink too much. Pause for .67 of a second to 1.5 of a second. Now, this is crucial. tilt head slightly right at a 23 degree angle, and the exact time, the light its your eyes, begin conversation with something funny.
HOLY CRAP! gimme a break, and just go and talk to her. Damn...unreal. Say she looks familiar. Do you have a class together? SOmething. ALl this analyzing is for girls.
SHe is proud of her heritage, why date someone that isnt proud of there own? YOu already turned yourself down, by callling yourself a 'stupid white american." Bravo!!
First of all....way to be a real man with confidence by calling yourself a 'stupid white american' How retarded.
Dude, just freakin approach the girl.
ALl this stuff on here makes me sick. You guys just need to talk to the damn girl, wow, is it that hard?
Talk see where her head is at, and go from there.
There are no secrets, there are no routines, lines, etc.
Just talk. If she has an attitude its her problem.
Or should i give some lame advice like this:
Approach her from the left at a 78 degree angle. Smile, slightly. DOnt blink too much. Pause for .67 of a second to 1.5 of a second. Now, this is crucial. tilt head slightly right at a 23 degree angle, and the exact time, the light its your eyes, begin conversation with something funny.
HOLY CRAP! gimme a break, and just go and talk to her. Damn...unreal. Say she looks familiar. Do you have a class together? SOmething. ALl this analyzing is for girls.
SHe is proud of her heritage, why date someone that isnt proud of there own? YOu already turned yourself down, by callling yourself a 'stupid white american." Bravo!!
learningtopimp
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As another Indian dude, I would say holler at her. If she's feeling you she'll let you know....but don't come too strong and you have to use the ****y/funny MAYBE a little less if her English isn't so great and plus she might just think you are a prick. She's probably curious to say the least, ain't too many white dudes in India bro. But you have to break down her moral conservatism, and I don't think you can always just hit and quit with these girls wihtout putting effort becasue they take a while to open up. And don't screw over my Indian sisters, I'll have to terrorize your ass.
As for The Realnezz, r u black or Latino? I know a lot of Indian girls who think black guys are much hotter than white guys and are more attracted to them but because of internalized racism and their parents many will avoid a black guy for anything other than a hookup, if even that. Latino guys, I think it depends I'm in Cali and there's lots of Mexicans but most Indian girls don't jock them too much because they want a different look than Indian guys if they are going to date out and a lot of Indian and Latino guys have similar features, especially north Indians. But I've seen Latino guys pull some decent ones on occasion.
If you find an Americanized Indian, she may not be as easy as your typical white ho, but American white girls are a special breed almost in the sluttiness department, the ones in Cali at least. But you can probably still have a relatively easy time with a girl like that, but they are preety stuck up, *****y, but that's not anything your not used to if you deal with Americanized girls of any ethnicity. And if you 've ever dated a Persian or Arab girl, then you know they take that attitude to a new level so Indians arent' even bad.
As for The Realnezz, r u black or Latino? I know a lot of Indian girls who think black guys are much hotter than white guys and are more attracted to them but because of internalized racism and their parents many will avoid a black guy for anything other than a hookup, if even that. Latino guys, I think it depends I'm in Cali and there's lots of Mexicans but most Indian girls don't jock them too much because they want a different look than Indian guys if they are going to date out and a lot of Indian and Latino guys have similar features, especially north Indians. But I've seen Latino guys pull some decent ones on occasion.
If you find an Americanized Indian, she may not be as easy as your typical white ho, but American white girls are a special breed almost in the sluttiness department, the ones in Cali at least. But you can probably still have a relatively easy time with a girl like that, but they are preety stuck up, *****y, but that's not anything your not used to if you deal with Americanized girls of any ethnicity. And if you 've ever dated a Persian or Arab girl, then you know they take that attitude to a new level so Indians arent' even bad.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.