"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Incredible Connection Pattern

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I've heard much debate about the usefulness of the IC pattern. What do you guys think of it and why?

Also, an early version of it that I got from one of RJ's old newsletters instructs that you touch her solar plexus, and then to buy his video tape series to find out where that is. Anyone know anything about solar plexuses?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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roflmao You dont know where solar plexus is? Dont buy his videos just to find out where it is. Its like buying a video to find out your adam apple.

Solar plexus is below the tits and above your abs. Its the highest point on your belly which is not covered with ribs. If you get hit in your solar plexus, you struggle for air and its hard to breathe in for some time.

As to the IC pattern: Its the first you should learn and the first one to use. This way she will feel comfortable around you and you can start throwing more advanced and intimate patterns on her, and steer the convo toward sexual topics.

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Originally posted by Vronski:
roflmao You dont know where solar plexus is? Dont buy his videos just to find out where it is. Its like buying a video to find out your adam apple.
RAOFLMFAO at you, Man! That was my point in the first place. I tried encyclopedias and did searches on the Web to find a diagram but nothing
. I was not about to buy any of RJ's overpriced products though.
 
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