increasing the amount of women you meet

[ev3nst3v3n]

I personally am past the point of lacking self-confidence with women for the most part, I'm good looking enough to pull fine pvssy, I know what to do/how to act once I get a woman's #, I'm past all of the beginner stuff.


What my problem is (and it's nothing new, we all have the same problem) is meeting quality women.

Point blank. Bottom line. That's it.

I feel that if I met 10 high quality women a week, I would have the hottest girlfriend, or atleast be consistently dating attractive women. OBVIOUSLY right? It sounds silly, but it's true.

There are thousands of hot women in my city (many of which would be happy to be under my arm), but it's sadly tough to meet good ones. I have been out of an LTR for about a month and a half now, but I haven't met (m)any quality women.

The thing about getting out there and doing cold approaches is that I think even if you are the most confident cat on the block, it seems that a lot of women are not receptive to guys approaching them out of nowhere. The whole social proof thing is really true. Maybe a lack of confidence is speaking here, but I think women are more likely to talk to a guy who's out with friends vs. some guy walking around alone trying to meet women.

I guess that scenario works best when you exchange positive eye contact with a woman and then you make your move and talk to her. In that situation, a cold approach is more feasible.

But at risk of sounding like a broken record,

- Bars can be a good place to meet women, but largely are not.

- Those social clubs that they have are mostly pathetic, consisting of unhealthy types and unnatractive people (sorry, that sounds shallow, but it's mostly true).

- Dating sites: I have a theory that very attractive women are not looking to meet dudes from the internet. Most hot women do not have to lift a finger to meet eligible bachelors. Dating sites *attract* unnatractive women and women with mental issues. I'm sorry, but I think it's true. And I'm sure people will disagree and say that this is not the case, but beauty is subjective and I guess I'm talking exclusively about HOT women. 7.5 and up. On myspace you can meet all kinds of girls, maybe I have no internet game. But it's still the internet. It's not the same as being in the flesh breathing the same air as a woman in person.


I know this has been asked a million times, but where do you guys go to meet women?

I guess I need to get off my ass more, and do more cold approaches, and once positive eye contact is established, go in for the kill immediately. But man, if only it were easier to meet women. If I could meet 10 high quality women a week, I feel like thats all it would take for me to score with an extremely hot woman (7.5-10).

The cold approach is tricky though, there is a fine line between it being normal/socially acceptable, and being creepy.

Who has successfully increased the amount of women they meet to the numbers I am talking about? Anyone?

I need to increase the amount of women I meet. It's that simple.

Any suggestions/comments are welcome.

 

[everywomanshero]

No one thing...

is going to give you the instant success you seek. It all starts with you. Use clippers on that neck hair. Get your hair cut/styled monthly. Wear nice clothes. Do a quarterly inventory on your clothing. Throw out anything bad so you CANT wear it. Always, always wear cologne, brush/floss/breath freshner or some kind, shave/trim as needed, periodically get advice or confirmation on your looks from no less than 3 female friends. If all three do not agree on an aspect, then you'll have to seek further assistance in that area. If all three agree without knowing the others' stated opinions, then that is the truth.

Now, once you've done the above., you just have to get out there. Malls, bars, pedestrian streets, parks, Internet dating/rating sites, lunch hour buffets (I noticed you're also eating alone, I'll join you if you promise not to bite, you won't will you?), buses, trains (esp when busy so you *have* to sit next to her), seminars. That should get you started.

I suggest you read up on body language if you haven't already. I just got back from doing some cold approaches at the grocery store. I didn't get anywhere tonight, bad luck. Some nights you're on fire, others you're cold. Just the way the numbers fall, IMHO.

 

[nishbuk]

Do you have a club in your town which is exclusive to teaching dance? THere's a club here which teaches dance, but also doubles as a club.

 

[ev3nst3v3n]

thats a good idea with the dance class at the club. i should look into that.

yea, this post: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82450 kinda answers my whole post.

cold approaches can work, it's just a matter of doing it. THEN, you find a woman who is receptive of it and you're golden. i'm motivated to step up my cold approach game. because thats when i see the hottest women it seems, just in every day situations vs. in a club or a bar. maybe it's the places I frequent as well. but i need to step up to the plate and attempt to yield what i seek.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

I only read a few lines from your post but to answer the first question....

The super high quality women who are both beatiful and intelligent are few and far between... you gotta meet 20 chicks to find one that really kicks you in the ass, because she has it all.... At least for me that's how it is. Most are beautiful airheads, and they bore me to tears.

It's a numbers game when it comes to getting lucky, and it's a numbers game when it comes to finding the one girl that has it all... you gotta keep getting out there and eventually she'll turn up.

The best part about dating many chicks is that after a while, you really start to know what you're looking for and you can spot the trouble women from 2 miles down the road. They do things that experience can pick up on, right away.... where as in your AFC days you wouldn't even take note of the stupidity