Increase of verbal/physical confrontation from other guys when w/ attractive chicks

[mahon83050]

Since I have never dated an attractive women (a 7+) for a long enough period to know I was always curious to find out....

I want to hear from other guys who have or know someone who has an attractive girlfriend, fiance, wife. I am not just talking about bombshells here (9's and 10's) but solidly attractive/cute 7-8's.

Maybe I am just paranoid, but sometimes I worry about dating a 7+ because it might increase the chance of me getting in a verbal/physical confrontation with other jealous guys". I am no tough guy, I am rather passive, but don't really consider myself a pu$$y either. I have been in some physical confrontations before, but nothing too serious.

I mean do other dudes try and hit on your girl right in front of you, or try and diss and disrespect you in front of her or others?

I don't want to settle for an 6 or below because of these feelings which deep down I feel, might be a little absurd.

Once I get some money, I am thinking of taking up Hapkido or Krav Maga or something. Of course, not to start fights, but to give myself confidence that I can defend myself in a situation (including verbal).

I want to hear from all who see my point or those who have experienced what I think may happen, when you date 7+'s.

 

[Kev07]

unless you're taking your girl to a bar or club (which you shouldn't be doing anyway) you shouldn't have too much problems

 

[howardalex]

girls don't really like you getting physical with other guys, they'd rather you tell them to fvck off...

although it never hurt anyone to take up a martial art

 

[CLOONEY]

You will definately get other guys hitting on her (very very often), and even doing it infront of you (not to mention, her male "friends" will try and stab you in the back). I usually just pull her away, laugh, and tell her the guy is a dikc. It does get annoying though, and I have got angry on several occassions.

But its all worth it, I couldnt possibly date what I consider below an 8, not that Im shallow, I just cant be physically passionte with a girl I am not overly attracted too.

 

[Bonhomme]

When a gal was really into me I've never had that problem. We'd have a laugh about it.

And I'm not the biggest, strongest, baddest guy on the block, though I am fit and tall, and carry myself very confidently

 

[mahon83050]

You will definately get other guys hitting on her (very very often), and even doing it infront of you (not to mention, her male "friends" will try and stab you in the back). I usually just pull her away, laugh, and tell her the guy is a dikc. It does get annoying though, and I have got angry on several occassions.

But its all worth it, I couldnt possibly date what I consider below an 8, not that Im shallow, I just cant be physically passionte with a girl I am not overly attracted too.

Yea, my friend is dating a hot chick and four other guys were hitting on her when he came back from the bathroom (at the bar). I just think it is disrespectful to do that if you know the girl is with the guy.

You never know when some a-hole will take it a step further and start dissing you in front of your date, girlfriend etc.

That it is why, I think it is good to know how to physically defend yourself. When you know how to physically defend yourself, it gives you more balls to talk back to people who are dissing you.

 

[banGbro]

Its all about body language. If it was translated into English, guys would go "This is my territory, this is my girl, I am dominant." If you respond to it, yes sir whatever you say, or otherwise submissively, you will be picked on.

 

[Drum&Bass]

Even if your NOT dating an attractive girl, if your a guy that easily becomes popular and can attract beautiful women you WILL HAVE TO BE CONFRONTATIONAL ! when you mold yourself into the ideal image and have presence and confidence, alot of guys will resent you for that, that just the way it is !!! also alot of guys will test you, and push you to see why women love you and guys envy you..

I mean do other dudes try and hit on your girl right in front of you, or try and diss and disrespect you in front of her or others?

If your not a confrontational guy your gonna have to change your ways, I use to be passive aggressive, but as you improve your looks and game and status there are gonna be people that will hate you for that (with or without the girl)!!

I worry about dating a 7+ because it might increase the chance of me getting in a verbal/physical confrontation with other jealous guys

this line proves that you are a bit of a pu$$y
its like caveman times...if a hungry caveman see's a caveman whose got a hot cave girl and lots of food with comfy shelter the hungry cave man will kill the happy established caveman and take his assests including his woman, its survival...same rules apply in modern day...

I want to hear from all who see my point or those who have experienced what I think may happen

I've been going through haters and jealousy for awhile now, and one thing I realized is that being a man means you better be able to defend whats yours so hit that gym hardcore and if anyone steps up, let em know why you are king of the hill

 

[DrBeard]

Grow some balls!

Or try my bollock pop techniqe in tips forum cos it was writen for guys like u to take on the alpha males!

 

[mahon83050]

Even if your NOT dating an attractive girl, if your a guy that easily becomes popular and can attract beautiful women you WILL HAVE TO BE CONFRONTATIONAL ! when you mold yourself into the ideal image and have presence and confidence, alot of guys will resent you for that, that just the way it is !!! also alot of guys will test you, and push you to see why women love you and guys envy you..



If your not a confrontational guy your gonna have to change your ways, I use to be passive aggressive, but as you improve your looks and game and status there are gonna be people that will hate you for that (with or without the girl)!!

this line proves that you are a bit of a pu$$y
its like caveman times...if a hungry caveman see's a caveman whose got a hot cave girl and lots of food with comfy shelter the hungry cave man will kill the happy established caveman and take his assests including his woman, its survival...same rules apply in modern day...


I've been going through haters and jealousy for awhile now, and one thing I realized is that being a man means you better be able to defend whats yours so hit that gym hardcore and if anyone steps up, let em know why you are king of the hill

Well, this ain't the cave man days and I don't think going around beating people up because they envy me or vice versa is the way to go about things....that is immature childish behavior.

 

[mahon83050]

Even if your NOT dating an attractive girl, if your a guy that easily becomes popular and can attract beautiful women you WILL HAVE TO BE CONFRONTATIONAL ! when you mold yourself into the ideal image and have presence and confidence, alot of guys will resent you for that, that just the way it is !!! also alot of guys will test you, and push you to see why women love you and guys envy you..



If your not a confrontational guy your gonna have to change your ways, I use to be passive aggressive, but as you improve your looks and game and status there are gonna be people that will hate you for that (with or without the girl)!!

this line proves that you are a bit of a pu$$y
its like caveman times...if a hungry caveman see's a caveman whose got a hot cave girl and lots of food with comfy shelter the hungry cave man will kill the happy established caveman and take his assests including his woman, its survival...same rules apply in modern day...


I've been going through haters and jealousy for awhile now, and one thing I realized is that being a man means you better be able to defend whats yours so hit that gym hardcore and if anyone steps up, let em know why you are king of the hill

Well, this ain't the cave man days and I don't think going around beating people up because they envy me or vice versa is the way to go about things....that is immature childish behavior.

 

[ExploringOne]

ROFL. You have anxiety issues.

Guys will always hit on a hot girl, and if you're acting like a pu$$y standing next to her like a gnome, a person like me would definately have some fun.

Don't take a hot girl to a bar.

Do ignore guys who hit on your girl. Just block them with your back. There are many, many ways to ****block another guy without getting confrontational.