Incorporate 3-second rule into daily life, not just girls.

[snintel]

I'm going to try and use the 3-second rule with normal everyday stuff. I'm indecisive, I want to become more decisive and spontaneous sometimes. I'm going to apply 3-second rule to restaurants, snack machine, anything. Obviously, you can't really read even one entry on the menu in 3 seconds, but you get the point.

Rules for myself:
Must decide quickly
Must act quickly
Must not go back and regret the decision (Ordered a ****ty meal? Too bad, don't ***** about it, to yoruself or other people, see it positively -- you've learned one more thing about this place, you've tried a dish and know you don't like it, and you won't make that mistake again)

I think applying this rule 24/7, especially to seemingly trite things like what to get at the snack machine/restaurant, will help change my decision making habits overall.

I want to train myself to a) make quick decisions b) not regret the decisions c) take risks due to being more comfortable in decisions & consequences. This is mainly for advancement in life and business, not just girls.

You all should try this as well, maybe post experiences and results in here.

 

[dice]

let us know how it works out, sounds interesting

 

[S0LID]

was this thread a quick decisiond ? Holla us back with results.

 

[isotope]

good thread

i too have that problem: i am too easygoing.

when people ask me what i want to do or what i want to eat, or what movie i want to see... i am always indecisive

i guess i'm too relaxed because i ususally say "anything is fine, whatever you guys want"

but that makes me look like a follower, very beta, not at all aggressive and leader-like


so i agree that we should all work on being more of a LEADER. If the guys at the office are ready for lunch, get up and suggest a restaurant

get the ball rolling. have a mission and a plan dont waste time.
this is what i will work on.
girls dont want some bum who lazes around with the wind.