Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Incognito you POF slvT!! hahahaha!

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Dude check your POF messages...copy and paste the conversations with the screen names of chicks who left you their number to remember when you call them. (Remember the conversations and their real names if they left them..most did.)

You're getting a good amount of replies and numbers you man Wh0re! :crackup:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thanks dewd, you're the one putting in the work though. I would've been in the dark if you didn't show me how to be WINNING! Lol, you've nailed this sheet down to a science

I worked a ton of hours this week, especially today, but you may have forced me to carve out some time this weekend to catch up lol
 

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incognito42 said:
Thanks dewd, you're the one putting in the work though. I would've been in the dark if you didn't show me how to be WINNING! Lol, you've nailed this sheet down to a science

I worked a ton of hours this week, especially today, but you may have forced me to carve out some time this weekend to catch up lol

I replied to two of the chicks who said they'd prefer to chat on POF for a little while: "Cool. Talk to you soon!" and left it at that. You play it cool and don't get svcked into being an online 'chat' buddy with these chicks. either they move on and waste someone else's time or they eventually reply back with their number for real life talking and meeting. If not. Keep spamming and getting numbers. No time for the nonsense.

Some chicks will wait a few days and just send their number when they see you aren't chasing them and they'll wonder if you're busy meeting other chicks. If they reply without the number. Send a quick reply after a day or so of reading their reply (if no number is given) you just have to play the game and not take anything to heart on that site.



Also the best time to hit up chicks on there is Sunday evening. Most people aren't doing anything but checking their mail and getting ready for the new week. Replies come in more frequent Sunday evenings.
 

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Have today off (but still on call), so was gonna do some spamming but can't figure out how to post pics in a message from my iPhone. Sadly, I don't have a computer

Is it possible to do this from a phone?
 

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incognito42 said:
Have today off (but still on call), so was gonna do some spamming but can't figure out how to post pics in a message from my iPhone. Sadly, I don't have a computer

Is it possible to do this from a phone?

Never did it from a phone. Check your inbox...Damn you're an ANIMAL. I think you've got like ten replies. lol.

If ANY chick stalls with a number and says she wants to talk more before giving her number out. Don't continue talking to give her a reason to disqualify you. You simply respond: "Cool. I'll talk to you soon! =)"

You 'Leave the door open" for her in a nice way to give out the number while 'cutting' the online 'chat buddy' nonsense. She either sends her number in the near future on her own without you asking twice or she can go and play chat friends with other dudes. She'll either take the hint that you are busy, and busy meeting other chicks or she can twitter around on POF with desperate horn dogs. Period.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks but you deserve all the credit...at first I thought having 50 different interests listed was comical, now I'm starting to worry about needing to learn a little bit about a lot of subjects lol, or at least just enough to bs my way outta the convo lol
 

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Thanks but you deserve all the credit...at first I thought having 50 different interests listed was comical, now I'm starting to worry about needing to learn a little bit about a lot of subjects lol, or at least just enough to bs my way outta the convo lol

Get them to talk more about themselves. chicks love to talk about themselves. just be an excellent listener so they'll be 'impressed' you rember certain things that you bring up in the future..

You've got a friggin LOAD of chicks online. Start writing down all their names and numbers and the conversations on pof. copy and paste them with username and real name to remember. Don't go too overboard with spamming now...lol...you've gotten a LOT of numbers...lmao

Incognito = So Suave's POF PIMP of the month!
 
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