"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Incognito you POF slvT!! hahahaha!

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Dude check your POF messages...copy and paste the conversations with the screen names of chicks who left you their number to remember when you call them. (Remember the conversations and their real names if they left them..most did.)

You're getting a good amount of replies and numbers you man Wh0re! :crackup:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thanks dewd, you're the one putting in the work though. I would've been in the dark if you didn't show me how to be WINNING! Lol, you've nailed this sheet down to a science

I worked a ton of hours this week, especially today, but you may have forced me to carve out some time this weekend to catch up lol
 
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incognito42 said:
Thanks dewd, you're the one putting in the work though. I would've been in the dark if you didn't show me how to be WINNING! Lol, you've nailed this sheet down to a science

I worked a ton of hours this week, especially today, but you may have forced me to carve out some time this weekend to catch up lol
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I replied to two of the chicks who said they'd prefer to chat on POF for a little while: "Cool. Talk to you soon!" and left it at that. You play it cool and don't get svcked into being an online 'chat' buddy with these chicks. either they move on and waste someone else's time or they eventually reply back with their number for real life talking and meeting. If not. Keep spamming and getting numbers. No time for the nonsense.

Some chicks will wait a few days and just send their number when they see you aren't chasing them and they'll wonder if you're busy meeting other chicks. If they reply without the number. Send a quick reply after a day or so of reading their reply (if no number is given) you just have to play the game and not take anything to heart on that site.


Also the best time to hit up chicks on there is Sunday evening. Most people aren't doing anything but checking their mail and getting ready for the new week. Replies come in more frequent Sunday evenings.
 
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Have today off (but still on call), so was gonna do some spamming but can't figure out how to post pics in a message from my iPhone. Sadly, I don't have a computer

Is it possible to do this from a phone?
 
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Have today off (but still on call), so was gonna do some spamming but can't figure out how to post pics in a message from my iPhone. Sadly, I don't have a computer

Is it possible to do this from a phone?
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Never did it from a phone. Check your inbox...Damn you're an ANIMAL. I think you've got like ten replies. lol.

If ANY chick stalls with a number and says she wants to talk more before giving her number out. Don't continue talking to give her a reason to disqualify you. You simply respond: "Cool. I'll talk to you soon! =)"

You 'Leave the door open" for her in a nice way to give out the number while 'cutting' the online 'chat buddy' nonsense. She either sends her number in the near future on her own without you asking twice or she can go and play chat friends with other dudes. She'll either take the hint that you are busy, and busy meeting other chicks or she can twitter around on POF with desperate horn dogs. Period.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thanks but you deserve all the credit...at first I thought having 50 different interests listed was comical, now I'm starting to worry about needing to learn a little bit about a lot of subjects lol, or at least just enough to bs my way outta the convo lol
 
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Thanks but you deserve all the credit...at first I thought having 50 different interests listed was comical, now I'm starting to worry about needing to learn a little bit about a lot of subjects lol, or at least just enough to bs my way outta the convo lol
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Get them to talk more about themselves. chicks love to talk about themselves. just be an excellent listener so they'll be 'impressed' you rember certain things that you bring up in the future..

You've got a friggin LOAD of chicks online. Start writing down all their names and numbers and the conversations on pof. copy and paste them with username and real name to remember. Don't go too overboard with spamming now...lol...you've gotten a LOT of numbers...lmao

Incognito = So Suave's POF PIMP of the month!
 
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