"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Inclined Pushups

Being_the_Don

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Back when I first joined this group I posted in the fitness section that as part of my exercise routine I do inclined pushups- a total of 45 done in 3 sets (15 per set). I always knew I could do more than that. At the time I made that post I had been going to the gym regularly but the past few weeks I have been busy with work and have reduced my time ( not good, though). To make up for it I have been riding my bike and doing the pushups. Anyhow, I decided to increase the number of sets I'm doing. I'm up to 105 inclined pushups now. I take a 60 sec pause between sets. It feels good to be able to do this many. I don't do them everyday, I have a routine of every other day and I'm glad to know that I'm making progress. And I'll increase the number of sets again in a few weeks.

And despite the fact that I have not been able to get to the gym as much as I'd like these days, a few weeks ago a woman I know complimented me on the way I look. We hadn't seen each other for a while so when she saw me she was very impressed. She told me a couple of times over the course of the next couple of hours that she liked the way I looked. She and I are just friends, though, so there is nothing going on between us. All the same, I wonder how many of her girlfriends she told this to (but those women are kind of dumb anyway). I feel better for exercising, I have more energy and I like it. It's something I'm doing for myself but it is good to know that others can see the difference.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Incline pushups are easy, I think those working shoulders. I can do your present number in one set, as my workout I do 32 incline pushups. That number is increased until I feel muscle getting workout. Then I super set it with decline pushups, those are harder. They workout your back.

Dry decline pushups, you will really get a workout.
 

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Your post is an upper.

There is no better feeling to know what your doing for your fitness that others and especially the babes notice even though the mind frame should be only for ourselves but the babes noticing is the bonus for all the hard work.

Way to go.

LoneSilver


Being_the_Don said:
Back when I first joined this group I posted in the fitness section that as part of my exercise routine I do inclined pushups- a total of 45 done in 3 sets (15 per set). I always knew I could do more than that. At the time I made that post I had been going to the gym regularly but the past few weeks I have been busy with work and have reduced my time ( not good, though). To make up for it I have been riding my bike and doing the pushups. Anyhow, I decided to increase the number of sets I'm doing. I'm up to 105 inclined pushups now. I take a 60 sec pause between sets. It feels good to be able to do this many. I don't do them everyday, I have a routine of every other day and I'm glad to know that I'm making progress. And I'll increase the number of sets again in a few weeks.

And despite the fact that I have not been able to get to the gym as much as I'd like these days, a few weeks ago a woman I know complimented me on the way I look. We hadn't seen each other for a while so when she saw me she was very impressed. She told me a couple of times over the course of the next couple of hours that she liked the way I looked. She and I are just friends, though, so there is nothing going on between us. All the same, I wonder how many of her girlfriends she told this to (but those women are kind of dumb anyway). I feel better for exercising, I have more energy and I like it. It's something I'm doing for myself but it is good to know that others can see the difference.
 

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LoneSilver said:
Your post is an upper.

There is no better feeling to know what your doing for your fitness that others and especially the babes notice even though the mind frame should be only for ourselves but the babes noticing is the bonus for all the hard work.

Way to go.

LoneSilver
Thanks, I appreciate it. I've increased my weights again (on machines and free weights) and picked up new exercises, too. And I do inclined ab crunches at the gym now. I had been doing them at home but I reduced it down to 15 just to say that I'm doing them. But at the gym I was doing about 50 for a while. But one day I said "Let's see if I can do more." so I did. I'm doing 105 ab crunches now. I do as many as I can at first (about 25) then rest a moment then do more. Sometimes it's ten at a time. But other times it's a little more than that. Today I eventually had it up to 15 at a time. I keep going up to 105 before I call it a day on the ab crunches. I set the bench on maximum incline to get the best results. And I feel it, too, in my lower abdominals. But What can I do to get the work out on my upper abs? Any suggestions from you guys?
 

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Kerpal said:
Try V-ups. Lie on your back with your arms straight on the floor behind your head and do a crunch while bringing your legs up, so your body forms a "V". It's a lot harder than it sounds, and I always feel those in my upper abs.

Thanks. I'll try it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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