Whatever works dude. I recommend all dudes read or listen to the 48 Laws of Power. One of the laws, I believe 37 is something where you create an illusion of yourself on to others. Great read. Here's a complete list of the laws; should anyone care (https://improvementpower.com/blog/48-laws-of-power-list)If that was me, I'd just not tell the girl and lie about having a good job and try to bang her somewhere else (although i'd even just take her back to my parents - if we were both just looking for fun that night, neither party usually cares)
PS - I have a slayer friend who, even though he used to have a fairly well paid job and his own place, has been unemployed and back living with his parents for a while now, and he still gets laid like a rockstar with random hot girls. Very handsome dude. Mainly banging 18-22 years olds despite being 32 aswell. lol
I think if you have extreme attraction (through looks or whatever) then nothing else realyl matters. She won't care about the job and living arrangements and will want to hook up and get banged if you get her hot enough
However, if you're talking about actually getting a serious girlfriend, then I agree that a job and your own place etc obviously matters. Not that I want a gf, though!