"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lokariototal

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I feel that If girls find out, that I feel I don't know how to get chicks, that I get insecure when trying more intimate kino, that I haven't kissed a lot of girls and/or that my love/sex life is a piece of ****, they won't love me.
Do you think think this is true?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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moneyisking

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slaog said:
You need to love yourself first.


At least accept yourself and know you're worthy of having a relationship with a real actual woman! ;)
Gold advice, the problem is... making that phrase yours.
 

spicker5

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Work on yourself.

Go to the gym, do stuff that makes you feel good about yourself that does NOT involve women.
 

slaog

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moneyisking said:
Gold advice, the problem is... making that phrase yours.

The OP can start by realising that its his own false limiting beliefs that are stopping him from loving himself. It happens most people to some degree. So instead of asking if he needs to be this or that for girls to love him he should know thats false and people are attracted to other people (faults and all) if those other people love themselves.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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